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    What are the factors that contribute to the care and control of children and young people

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    A damn spanking!!  But in theis PC worls we are not allowd to draw from one of our basic human instincts and that is to raise a child with love and discipline -- We are born with this instinct.  This discipline will reward the child in adult life with respect of others and knowing what is right from wrong.  Today if seen spanking a child, the child is taken to a foster home with strangers that do not love him.her as a blood parent would and they receive no disclipine or training, the foster parents receive a check from the state, that's where their love is.  People must understand the difference between disclipining a child and child abuse.. There is a big difference but the courts see teaching a child with a smack on the butt as child abuse, then the child grows up with no understanding of love or right from wrong, they are disrespectful and will threaten their elders and others,  in some  cases, become murderers.  Even mass murderes-- But even if  not this bad, many of them end up on the wrong side of the law because they don't understand laws.

    Vinny

    And the terrible thing is that those that don't believe in discipline by the hand and insist on 'understanding and time out' are the very same ones that are bringing disrespect for authority and no respect for others around them, to these people a child only needs to be fed and clothed, they don't understand the instinct they are born with and they fight it as not socially acceptable, meanwhile they allow their kids to run free- i am in retail (piano) I see these kids everyday, they have no respect, they bang on pianos, smear candy on the keys and parents ignore them and if i say something, the parents get mad at me and leave--even though their ruthless rowdy kids have torn up the place and annoy other customers that are actually playing pianos. This PC policy of raising kids with 'a talking to' and time out has had over 30 years to prove itself since Dr. Spock's book. It doesn't work! Spock is a failure and he didn't even have children, yet parents listened to him.. The way kids are today and thei disrespect for everything is the result of 'spare the rod' upbringing.. And I don't mean beat the kids so much that they bleed, this is cruelty. These frigging people raise their dogs and cats better than they raise their kids.

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