And when they say let's take thing's slow till we see if we want to commit to each other and make sure we like each other till we become a couple, how slow is to slow? Till you know he isn't in to you.
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Is he your best friend? Can you tell him everything? Do you think he tells you everything? Do you laugh at the same things? How about $- this is a biggie!? and kids? Not just having them but how to raise them? and if one of you gets very sick or hurt? Listen, marriage is a two way street. Be smart and take the time to REALLY get to know him...after all it's your marriage/life too. Divorce is sad and VERY ugly most of the time it's better to do all of the thinking and discovering before you marry. TRUST ME on this!!!
11 years ago. Rating: 7 | |
men look for honesty-loyalty which brings trust, trust is the main issue- men have a hard time trusting, which I think has alot to do with (like when I was younger) cheating, I was a really bad cheater,and it made me not trust females,or anybody .. and now that I am older and done with all that it is hard to adjust give it time,if he isn't ready then he's not the right man for you.. when you find the right man you' WILL KNOW'
11 years ago. Rating: 4 | |
It varies with the man. But, if he hasn't shown any signs of maybe having a future with you after 6 months, then dump him. But, when a man wants to settle down, he looks for a woman with whom he can have sex, love, companionship, and who will make a good mother ( if he wants kids ) Being a good cook doesn't hurt either. Of course, being attractive to him is what initially draws him in.......so keep yourself looking nice. And nowdays, men consider a woman's job.....what she does....how much it pays, what benefits there are.
11 years ago. Rating: 1 | |