Carys
I have this best friend called Maggie. Maggie is so into boys that it even affects her grades in school. i tried talking to her but she takes it like as though i do not like her . i love her so so much and i do not want her hurt. sometime i learn that the guy she's dating is just using her and we plan with some other friend to tell her about it but she never listened she actually got so mad at me and cut off wires with me and even started gossiping words about me but the people she'z trusting are also betraying her...during examination period,she was so with the guy instead of reading her books..... the guy is actually now done with studies and she was discontinued from school due to her poor grades but still claims the guy likes her and hates me so much for talking to her in the first place about it....dont know what to do for her....please help....how can i get back the friendship or should i leave her
8 Answers
Ducky
So carys...Earlier you were a girl, wondering if he loves you. Now your pic has been changed to a boy and suddenly, you are all concerned about your friend Maggie. If you are just here to play, you had better stop now before you are permanently suspended. As I responded to you in the other thread, stop the drama and do your homework. Enough already!
| 11 years ago. Rating: 6 | |
pythonlover
If she won't listen to friends then she will have to find out the hard way. But don't forget that you are her friend, so when things do go wrong, just be there for her and pick up the pieces. That's what friends are for.
| 11 years ago. Rating: 5 | |
mitchymitchy
Youre friend maggie is not rare she digs boys because she feels an empty void and fells as though only boys can fill it. what I sugest to do is talk to her from your heart and say " look I really like you and I really care about you please do what ever you can to keep up and be my friend"
| 11 years ago. Rating: 5 | |
jhharlan
How old is Maggie? I would think this is just a phase and she'll outgrow it. It's good of you to be concerned but there is little that can be done at this point if I'm correct.....
| 11 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
mycatsmom
I think she needs an adult to talk to. She prob doesn't take you seriously, b/c you're one of her peers. Steer her in the direction of a trusted adult,.......like maybe her aunt or one of her teachers. Or,approach one of her teachers, who you think is good and ask her to talk some sense into your friend. It sounds like your friend doesn't have much guidence at home.
| 11 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
Dardaigh
What can you do to help her?
Stop trying to live her life for her.
The more you try to help, the more she will
resent what she thinks is interferance from you.
Considering you're the same age she probably
thinks you should let her get on with her own life.
She will live and learn.
| 11 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
Dollybird
Carys, this girl, will be a young lady next year, 18 yrs old. To really love someone is to let them go, in your case, let her go, She has to learn about life, but be there, if she needs a shoulder to cry on, and learn by mistakes. It sounds like, the more you advise her against some thing the more she will do it. Like we say here, you can being a horse to the water, but you cant make him drink it.
| 11 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
Colleen
If you truly love her, let her be. Some people are slow learners. Eventually she will get tired of being hurt and start listening to her friends. Until then, she will only see you as the enemy trying to impede on her happiness. Just be there to support her when she gets hurt and don't cut her down even more by saying, "I told you so". That is how you make yourself a good friend.
| 11 years ago. Rating: 2 | |
