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    DOES HE LOVE ME?

    i have this guy he's actually aflirt but since last year he still claims he loves me but he's messing arround with many girls and some he even denies.and sometimes acts like he feels nothing for me, puts other girls before me what should i call it ? love,lust,or wanting?  ... does he really love me?

    0  Views: 1092 Answers: 6 Posted: 11 years ago
    millie111

    I just don`t get you Carys..one minute you are so concerned that your friend who you love so so much,is messing with the wrong guys and not doing her school work?..Now it`s you!:-?...Who has the problem her or you?...Is she also concerned about your school work?:-Z
    Carys

    yes she is ......
    millie111

    Well that`s kind of counter productive wouldn`t you say?...Why don`t you each worry about where your own lives are heading? Wbms:-!

    6 Answers

    He has no respect for you, so why should you care if he loves you? Do you think so little of yourself that you just sit and wait to be treated like dirt. You need to tell him to get lost and mean it. Then figure out why you have such a low opinion of yourself. Get involved in life!

    Carys

    thx but its also so dfcult
    Ducky

    Moderator
    You have no idea how much more difficult your life will get, if you continue down this same path with him. You are getting just a small taste of misery!
    Carys

    thx Ducky u've really helped alot... donno wat i'd do if it wasnt for yo advise
    Ducky

    Moderator
    Thanks but I'm not at all sure that you'll take it.
    Carys

    trust me ...u just opened ma eyes today and i realised it...

    Make appointment to see JEREMY KYLE SHOW !! He will help you !!

    Carys

    cud u help me with the email please?????????
    mycatsmom

    carys, I think dowsa was just being facetious
    Carys

    mycatsmom y say so??????
    Ducky

    Moderator
    @dowsa....LOL!!

    Why do girls never see the truth, or want to?  No wonder they get all wrapped up in Drama all the time!  Move on, there is someone for you, keep looking! 

    Carys

    guess thts lyk ma only left option..... movin on .....
    bustieone

    Your only smart option, follow your head, not your heart!! He is a loser!! You do not need this in your life..
    Carys

    thx so much .... i'll try doing tht /.....
    Ducky

    Moderator
    Boys too. I've watched some of them get manipulated to the point where I want to scream...she's using you!!!
    Carys

    yo ryt ducky ....... seen that too and its worse....
    Ducky

    Moderator
    No it's not worse. It's equally disrespectful.
    Carys

    yea yea right .... it is .... its being disrespectful i know but at times .... its necesary
    Ducky

    Moderator
    Being a manipulator is dishonest and unloving. It is NEVER necessary. BTW, how old are you? Teenager I'm guessing?
    Carys

    17 ...headin for 18 in 2013....u guessed ryt......
    Ducky

    Moderator
    So now how about stopping all the drama and doing some homework instead. No boyfriend for now....education!
    bustieone

    I second that motion Ducky, Education first, Social life second (no dating till you are married!)
    Ducky

    Moderator
    Education first, then career (at 23), then dating (at 25), then marriage (at 35), then kids (at 36 & 37), then empty nest (at 58), then retirement (at 60), then REAL fun!!!!
    Aahhh...I'm older and wiser. lol
    bustieone

    My situation was almost the same. Ours never came back from college, really had empty nest since then.. Then the kids got married at 30 and 31,then grand-kids came, probably one more next year. I retired at 58 and with wife, we are doing some day care for little ones..

    He does not care about at all and wants only to use you.

    Carys

    but sometimes he proves he does....
    Ducky

    Moderator
    Carys..."Sometimes"? You must be kidding! Every minute of every day is the requirement.
    Carys

    yea ducky i think yo ryt ... just realised it

    maybe he told you he loves you to get something from you......oldest trick in the book .  He prob says those 3 little words to other girls, too.

    Carys

    yea ryt im sure he does.......... too stupid tht i was blind

    YES

    Carys

    so you mean he does love me?
    Ducky

    Moderator
    Carys...Listen to the truth...not what you WANT to believe. This person is playing with you!
    Carys

    thx ducky am now certain with the truth hz playin me am done with him


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