I AM A SINGLE MOM WORKING FULL TIME AND GOING TO SCHOLL IHAVE PLEADED BRIBBED THREATED PUNISHED ;WHIPPED HOLLARED THEY HAVE NO FATHER NEVER HAVE I HAVE NO MAN IN MY LIFE TILL RECEANTLY HE I S VERY GOOD WITH THEM BUT NOT STRICT CAN SOME SUGGEST SOMETHING I HAVE HAD TO GO ON NERVE PILLS AGAIN AND DONT WANT TO HAVE TO DDEPEND ON A PILL TO CALM DOWN THEY SEEN ME GET BEAT
AND ALSO FIGHT BACK BUT NOW THEY ARE DOING THE SAME TO ME I DONT TREAT PEOPLE THAT WAY NEVER HAVE SO WHY need help PLEASE !!!!
4 Answers
Start "borrowing" your kids things!...I usually start on their chocolate..and progress to thieir ipods/laptops,clothes etc....then park yourself in their bedrooms and treat their belongings as if they are your own!...They`ll soon get the message!;-0
11 years ago. Rating: 6 | |
It sounds like your kids have psychological / behavioural problems. Have you had them assessed by a mental health practitioner ?You yourself, and the kids may need family therapy which involves counselling, they can offer you strategies on how to deal with troublesome children.
11 years ago. Rating: 5 | |
You are in a very difficult situation. However, it is Not OK to take your belongings- especially your car keys! It is Not OK to act up so much that you call the police. The kids are little hellions at this point and must get a kick out of seeing you so upset and distraught. I would call their school(s) and ask to talk to their guidance counselor(s). Explain to them the kids behaviors at home and ask if they have a referal to a good family counselor OR call the counselor that came to your home and ask that person to help you. Good Luck!
11 years ago. Rating: 5 | |
Sell them. I personally would not keep such children. This is where I would draw the line on unconditional love and sell them. The circus will buy them.
11 years ago. Rating: 4 | |
ALL THOUGH IT HAS CROSSED MY MIND TO SELL THEM AND HAVE EVEN THREATED IT I COULD NEVER . I HAD A2 COUNSELERS IN MKY HOME 3 TIMES A WEEK TO EVALUATE THEM AND AFTER IT WAS ALL SAID AND DONE THEY TOLD MY CHILDREN THAT MY PARENTING WAS GREAT AND IF THEY DID NOT STOP HARRASING ME AND ACTING UP THEY WOULD REMOVE THEM AND TO CALL THRE POLICE WHEN THEY CARRIED ON SO I DID AND THE POLICE DIDNT DO ANYTHING AT ALL ;( NOBODY WANT TO HELP JUST SAY IM NOT DOING MY JOB I NEED SOME HELP WITH THESE KIDS AS FAR MAKING THEM UNDERSTAND THAT ARE GONNA BE SOCIAL OUTCAST THEY ALREADY GET MADE FUN OF THE WAY THEY CARRY ON HARDLY ANY FRIENDS MY FRIENDS EVEN AVOID COMING BY WHEN THEY ARE HOME