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You sound like my daughters?  But as I told them to you the difference between age 14 and age 16 is just 2 years even though to you it will feel more like 200 years and yet it will come all to fast. While waiting use the time to prepair, learn who you are since only then can you know what you really want.

Also remember having someone who is unworthy is worst than having no one at all.  Work on your shyness first.  To start make yourself smile and look everyone you see in the eyes and say HI to everyone you pass as you walk down the street or hall.  For you if you really are shy this will be very hard to do, but you must make yourself do it to help overcome your shyness and to gain confidence.

Never mind what the other person does back when you smile, look at them and say Hi.  Remember you are doing it for you more than them.  This will be the begining of finding someone worthy of being with you. 

That is all you have to do to start, but for some who are really shy it is hard and can take all of the two years you have to develop yourself.  Once you can do this everytime you go down the street or hallway you will have come very far in finding the right one to start dating.  Good luck.

why don't you wait untill the subject actually presents itself.....when a boy actually walks into your life? When that happens, maybe your mom and you can reach some agreement about when and where and how you can see him. Group dates are what's appropriate for your age.And NO sneaking around !

Fourteen is too young to be thinking of falling in love with someone.

At that age we all believe we know it all and our parents know nothing

This happens to every single generation that is growing up.

Your mother has experience in years and life. You don't want to listen 

but she is giving you the best possible advice for someone your age.

None of us wanted to hear any of this stuff but it's the honest truth.

Life goes by in the blink of an eye and kids always want to grow up

too fast and push the limits. As SL9 said, take this time to develop

your inner self...just because you think you are above average in

looks is not everything. There has to be substance and character

to a person to compliment their outward appearance.