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    My dilemma is that a very close friend of mine has passed away 5 years ago. I have been seeing her husband for 3 years. But the daughter who is 40 years old will not accept me in her dads life. I cant be with him ex. She just had a baby and I couldnt even share the excitement with him, couldnt go to hospital. He doesnt go to her house anymore because I am not allowed. To much to write it all.

     I am thinking now that I should walk away, I hate for him to miss out of watching his grandson grow up because he is now saying that he is going to tell her that he wont see her or be in babies life if I cant be allowed. I dont want him to do that. I am left out of everything and he has not gone to things because Im not allowed. He wants her to respect him and me I


     

    0  Views: 961 Answers: 1 Posted: 12 years ago

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    There could be, and no doubt are, so many variables involved in your question, that I could not begin to answer it for you.  Have you considered some kind of family counselling?  If not all three of you, then just you and "Dad" or even just for yourself so you can deal with it and come to the right decision.

    braz54

    Yes He offered to go with her to counseling she went once didnt want to hear what the counsler was saying. I could not go because she wont sit in the same room. never talks to me whe we go to a function that she isnt hosting. It is not like he was cheating with me I just cant figure it out.
    Ducky

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    That is why you need a professional. It isn't logical, so you will never figure it out on your own. There is a lot more to it, than what you are seeing.


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