17 Answers

Maybe you can't find the right woman because your expectations are too high and your priorities are in the wrong places.

Maybe because you are looking for women, not a woman. Women do not like to share. 

Colleen

Well with your attitude about women, I can see exactly why you are single. No woman wants to be with a chauvinist. Enjoy the single life. I hope you can stand living with yourself.

Colleen

Check your question. It's all about you. Your words are from your own mind. They are what you think of women. You can't even back out of this one. Check your English, apparently you have no clue as to what you are saying.

You are looking in the wrong places.

Because you are "rattyman" which sounds sort of...well...ratty....man. I, for one...and being WOMAN Goddess of everything even the air you are now breathing...don't know that I would care to be called something like Mrs. rattyman...maybe change the spelling to rattymOn and it'll sound more dready and you can score chicks who are reggae freaks...just a thought...or was it?

Colleen

Check his answers to everyone. He most definitely is a rat.

You can't find any woman and yet you're spending your time at akaQA?  Surprise, surprise.

Rattyman, have you ever thought of attending meditation classes?  You seem very wound up and clearly portray a negative outlook toward women.  You also write in absolutes which leads me to believe that you have not met every single woman on this planet. 

Negative energy abounds!

If you look back at your responses you may see 

what others are seeing. You refer to women as

"vindictive cheaters". I don't think you are ready

for another relationship, as you have not taken

the time to heal from the last one.

rattyman...you're very confusing to me.  Are you single or married?  Are you looking for a woman or several women?  Do you like women or hate them?  It takes more, much more, than proper manners (opening doors, pulling out chairs, etc) to attract someone.  Read a book.

https://www.howtofindyoursoulmate.com/

Dude, all women are to be treated as something precious. If you can keep that in the back of your mind you will find that special woman. The uglier you become, so will they. You shall reap what you sow. 

Change your attitude, like change your avatar name for starters.......

Colleen

I wouldn't treat you like a dog. Dogs deserve so much better than you do. I would treat you like the pig you are.

Hmmm...Doo is quite confused.  One premiss you have is that women are cheaters..but not men...yet, you are married looking for women...see how I might be a bit confused- with that married for 20 years part casually thrown in there????

You are a married man for 16 years and with her for twenty? You should be glad you have a fool to stick with you! What's wrong with you? RATMAN?  Shame on you ! Would you just dump your partner of twenty years for a right woman?  No woman I know would even talk to a RAT like you!

Might be you want your dream girl ?

Drama, Drama, too much Drama! 

I heard all the best women, shop at Wal-mart, most of them are free, looking for Mr right, you might fit some ones dream.....

Well Rattyman... It seem to me that your not to commited with your relationship that you are in now? In anycase there are many situation that people are in a disfuntional marriage, My suggestion would take some time to figure out what went wrong with your first marriage, you wont be able to make a wise choice if you don't solve these issue, You know you reap what you sow! BTW. there are no perfect women out there and if there is one by chance, it a good chance she'll be looking for a perfect men..Oh well make a long story short, you'd need to do some work or behavior on self before committing to another unhappy marriage.