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Some people have a very difficult time with this. Only they can change themselves.
My ex-husband was never wrong about anything. He always had an excuse and it was always someone else's fault. .............. especially mine.
All the wars in the world > my fault.
Any invasion upon any downtrodden civilization > my fault.
Him burning toast > my fault...
He was never ever, not one single time wrong about any thing... nothing.... and some of his "not wrongs" were over the top "not wrongs".
(I can laugh now..... Years of therapy later.... spas, retreats and memory erasing... Now it's hilarious!)
I also had a friend like that... never wrong about one single thing. Her opinion was the only opinion and because of this I found myself biting my tongue a lot. If a person disagreed with her opinion, she argued and argued then cut that friend off until she had 'gotten better'. She absolutely always had to have the last word. It was all about her opinions and feelings... no one else came into the equation. Sad actually. She goes through friends like toilet paper. The operative phrase is, "Control Issues". These people are often called, "Control Freaks".
The only person you have the power to change is yourself.
12 years ago. Rating: 17 | |
If your husband believes he is right…any consideration to the contrary is wrong in his opinion because of his belief that he is right. That belief will put the brain to work providing justifications and revised opinions in defence of that belief like it is salvation itself leading to Heaven and it’s one and only way. Understanding the effect of belief and denial on a persons life is vital in that the continuation of this miscreant behavior leads to misery and tragedy.
12 years ago. Rating: 8 | |
No one is 100% right all the time, You know in your heart if you have done someone wrong
So If are one of these people who are always right , your relationship maybe at risk. Think about it do
you want to be alone and always right,never admitting your wrong, Or would you like to be right and admite when you are wrong, say you are sorry and be in a happy and loving relationship.Dont let your stubborness make you a looser.
12 years ago. Rating: 1 | |