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    why is so hard for her to admit she is wrong about things?

    +3  Views: 1029 Answers: 10 Posted: 12 years ago

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    Some people have a very difficult time with this.  Only they can change themselves.


    My ex-husband was never wrong about anything.  He always had an excuse and it was always someone else's fault.  .............. especially mine.  


    All the wars in the world > my fault.


    Any invasion upon any downtrodden civilization > my fault.


    Him burning toast > my fault...


    He was never ever, not one single time wrong about any thing... nothing.... and some of his "not wrongs" were over the top "not wrongs".


    (I can laugh now..... Years of therapy later.... spas, retreats and memory erasing... Now it's hilarious!)


    I also had a friend like that... never wrong about one single thing.  Her opinion was the only opinion and because of this I found myself biting my tongue a lot.  If a person disagreed with her opinion, she argued and argued then cut that friend off until she had 'gotten better'.  She absolutely always had to have the last word.  It was all about her opinions and feelings... no one else came into the equation.  Sad actually.  She goes through friends like toilet paper.  The operative phrase is, "Control Issues".  These people are often called, "Control Freaks".


     


    The only person you have the power to change is yourself.


     

    Ann

    Your ex-husband sounds exactly like my ex-husband.
    dowsa

    "CHANGE YOU SAY! IV`E TRIED IT BUT MY JOSIE HAS THE POWER OVER ME USES TV REMOTE TO CONTROL >"NO WORDS SPOKEN. I TRIED TO SPEAK SHE PRESSES "MUTE" LIPS CLOSE ITS a WOMAN`S WORLD !!
    FISH-O

    Hector, you speak about drinking alcoholic beverages quite often. In the future I will employ my powers of ESP so that I know exactly when you are taking antibiotics, in an argumentative mood or just having a sippy-poo.
    FISH-O

    Ann, our ex-husbands must have gone to the same "I am always right University".
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Hector, pick one account and stick with it. Last I knew you were Dennis O'Brien, now you're back to Hector. The members do not appreciate the account changing. I'm getting complaints about it again. Use one account please.
    doolittle

    @ Fishy and Ann...sorry but I was always at fault too. Now, how do we split all of the wars, the world economic crisis, and burnt toast up between the three of us????

    It's a woman thing, best to just get on with it and admit you were "maybe" wrong!

    FISH-O

    You walk with the devil Man! This answer is wrong!
    ROMOS

    Like "you know" WOMAN!
    FISH-O

    I know allllllllll!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    ROMOS

    Nope!
    FISH-O

    Omnipotent!!! Yes!
    Dollybird

    My husband will never admit he is wrong, even when I can prove he is, Mennnnnnn

    BECAUSE WOMAN ARE NEVER "WRONG" THAT IS  A HAND ME DOWN WORD FROM FATHER TO SON .GO WITH THE FLOW !!

    Ducky

    Moderator
    One smart man! :)

    I hate to admit I was wrong but, I will admit it on occasion........

    If your husband believes he is right…any consideration to the contrary is wrong in his opinion because of his belief that he is right. That belief will put the brain to work providing justifications and revised opinions in defence of that belief like it is salvation itself leading to Heaven and it’s one and only way. Understanding the effect of belief and denial on a persons life is vital in that the continuation of this miscreant behavior leads to misery and tragedy.

    Maybe it's because she is like my wife ..... always right.

    I was wrong once.  :)   

    I am wrong some of the time but I am not wrong all of the time.

    Ducky

    Moderator
    Are you sure about that? LOL!
    facebook

    Are you telling I'm wrong all the time?
    Ducky

    Moderator
    Ummm...er...well, all I know about you is that you're a male and so...
    facebook

    Oh! I almost forgot about that your right women!!!!!

     


    No one is 100% right all the time, You know in your heart if you have done someone wrong


    So If are one of these people who are always right , your relationship maybe at risk. Think about it do


    you want to be alone and always right,never admitting your wrong, Or would you like to be right and admite when you are wrong, say you are sorry and be in a happy and loving relationship.Dont let your stubborness make you a looser.


     

    your beauitful and very sexy  leave him find me or somebody elese he  a looser



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