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You had 7 answers to your last question, 5 of them were from women, extract what you think is good from them all.

I'm a man, I don't have a clue about women!

On your profile page, your birthdate indicates that you are 51 years old, yet you list your height, weight, eye color and hair color.  If you are asking to date women in your age group, why would they say that you're too old, and why do you think that they would be interested in (for example) the color of your eyes.  Isn't that a little superficial?

It sounds to me, as though you are searching in the wrong places and the wrong age group.  Get involved in activities that interest you and become friends with women who are there.  They might be "too old" for you or not have the "right eye color" but you could discover someone who is intelligent enough to care about the important things in life! Women want "friends" not "chasers".  Relax.

I am sorry to hear about your wife!  I think Women want to be good friends with a partner (this takes time).  I believe being funny, flexible, and truly nice and honest go a long way in a woman's "book".  In your situation it may be important to convey to women that you are looking for a new partner (not a replacement).  I do not know what age group you have been trying to date...but staying within 10 years of your age might help.  As far as visual/ sexual attraction- that is a very individual thing.  Be honest with yourself (first) as to what you really want...this can vary from a new soul mate to dinner and a roll in the hay.  Then be honest with the women (Women are looking for the two extremes and everything in between).  Oh, most mature women don't like games, double standards...and they hate lies!

I'm probably not the person to answer this correctly because I am a one woman man.

But.... I think most importantly let the woman you are dating be herself.Don't open EVERY door for her & don't CLING.

LISTEN  to what she has to say & offer a valid opinion.

Remember she is an individual & not just a potential extension of yourself.

BTW.5'9' & 189lbs?  Lose a coupla pounds around the waist old mate.LOL.

Can't relate. Just had my 43rd anniversary. Get a hobby that women also find interesting or a sport, golf, bowling, alligator wrestling, you get my drift?

Ducky

But how would that work if you went alligator wrestling and lost an arm to "ali"...oops...no more golf...no more bowling! So much for your plans! :(

Ducky

Wow...one bite and it's over! That can happen sometimes too, when you have just started your "dinner date".

If possible, join some kind of a club where there are male/female members, get to know the people in general. and hope fully, there will be some nice female members, there also. One step at a time.. friends first.

Try having fun when you go out, and see that you are doing something she might enjoy also. After you share having a good time together, if things come together in a good way, they do. If they don't come together, chalk it up to texperience, and try again with someone else.

It might be easiest to stay within your age group, and focus on people with similar interests or hobbies, etc. I say this, as sometimes it's just easiest to focus on what you are doing and sharing, rather than getting yourself all nervous and uptight focussing directly on the person. This will allow things to move along more naturally.

sorry to hear about it.so by the way what woman want.we want a love and care.some one that we can share thought ideas views and plan in life.i want some body when im weak he be there for me.

A woman wants the things money can't buy, to love and be loved

NOTHING IN LIFE CAN BE SECURE....
AND NOTHING CAN BE PERMANENT
AND NO ACHIEVEMENT CAN BE ACHIEVED
UNLESS BUILT UPON TRUST
AND JUSTICE.

SO WHAT IS TRUST AND WHAT IS JUSTICE?

TRUST......is understanding and accepting what the other says and it creates a sense of being safe and wanted and it helps you to forecast a better brighter future.

JUSTICE....is being fair and just and doing what is right and deserved. Justice is widespread....but in simple words that the offender is held responsible for his behavior.

So at the end of it in a relationship there should be trust and justice, understanding and accepting and being fair and accepting responsibility for ones behavior.

At the end of it all A WOMAN WANT TO LOVE AND BE LOVED!