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    my father died from falling down some stairs, and i don't believe his wife is telling the truth about how he really died. How do I live not knowing what happened to my father

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    If you really feel there is some "foul play" involved, do contact the police agency that responded to your father's accident and ask them for a report.  You may have to pay $10 or so, but that is a starting place.  If an autopsy was performed, you can also request a copy of that. 
    If there was a good motive for your step-mother (I'm assuming she is not your bio-mom) to have your father pass, and any suspicion about his death, an investigation can be conducted. 

    How to live with his death if you can't get "satisfaction"?  Faith.  Contact a "help" line and ask for a counseling referral. You may need to have someone who will listen to your concerns and help you work through the grief process.   

    millie111

    Great answer Bob!

    "What to do if you suspect foul play involved with death of a loved one"....I ran this through the bing conduit and the first four links here may be of interest for you to read>>>http://www.bing.com/search?q=What%20to%20do%20if%20you%20suspect%20foul%20play%20involved%20with%20death%20of%20a%20loved%20one&pc=conduit&ptag=AA86C9977A80442CA91F&form=CONOMX&conlogo=CT3210127&ShowAppsUI=1


     

    It`s terrible for you to lose your Father(Sympathies to you)!...I can only say I`d not be able to rest until I had a full investigation...It does sound suspicious...you need to know the truth...I feel very sorry for you,...I wish you well...please get advice from police or  a helpline...I don`t think many people could/shuld try and cope with this alone!

    dont trust her

    jenny ju ju

    I would never trust her but the coroner did. She got 90,000 dollars from a settlement for agent orange my dad received one week prior to his death. She had my father cremated and has not ever spoken to me since. I feel it in my heart that she is lying

    It is your choice to be happy or right. Choose happiness, it is so much easier to live with.

    millie111

    I see your point..just think that some need some answers before they can put things behind them and find that happiness...(I know I`d want to find out as much as I could in the circumstances..before I could go forward):-¬
    robertgrist

    Suspicion, distrust, resentment, belief and denial are all unloving, thought modifying tools that lead away from happy, loving, trusting relationships.

    my father had a pillow placed under his head and he died. I cant understand why his wife needed to put the pillow there if the death certificate shows he died three hours before she said? am I the only one that if confused because I have to figure this out

    millie111

    I think you need to start the grieving process before your head is anywhere near the right plus to try and figure out any potential facts...Your head will be addled enough taking in your loss right now...but easier in time!...All best wishes,millie


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