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    Why do you think she said this odd thing?

    My friend of many years said, "You have a weird energy about you today."


    I have no idea why she said it. I did not want further comment from her. I left soon after she said it.

    +4  Views: 3511 Answers: 12 Posted: 12 years ago
    Colleen

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    itsmee
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    She's on her way over to my house. I gotta MEMORIZE. : DD

    Wierdly
    Itsmee

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    lindilou: Least she didn't say STRANGE!!! hee hee!

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    And winnie the poo to you too.


    and for my next act...


    My clothes washer has a mind of it’s own too.


    Yup, next thing you know I’ll be growing fangs.


    Do you remember the time when you ________________? I don’t. 


    Have you been eating those mushrooms in the yard again?

    lindilou

    lmao!!! too much!! priceless!! hahahahaha!
    itsmee

    I didn’t use any of the marvelous comments. She & I just moved on to other subjects, small-town friendly gossip, recipe exchange, and how to fix my horrid hair. I had robertgrist’s comments written on a tiny piece of paper that I hid in my sugar bowl. In case she went on with her “weird” comments, I would have pulled out the paper and used one of his comments.
    I keep this in mind ... “She who laughs, lasts”
    lindilou

    ....still rolling on the floor...hahaha rg!!

    itsmee....hee hee hee... the sugar bowl...lol
    itsmee

    : ) You are fun, girl!

    That isn't a strange thing to say in this neck of the woods at all.  I actually say that to my husband and friends on occasion.  They say it to me from time to time. 


    It isn't serious... it is a way of saying "You don't seem like yourself."


    Does your friend hang out on the lower mainland from time to time?    

    lindilou

    rofl! Come to the island mon!!! ;D ha ha ha
    itsmee

    I love this “lower mainland” bit. : )
    lindilou

    On the island the "mainland" is called the "continent" or "Turtle Island"...we're up in upper Canada itsmee! Come and visit sometime!!!
    FISH-O

    And, technically I live in The Valley which makes me a "Valley Girl"!
    lindilou

    Technically I'm in Parks-Vegas...on the strip!! hahaha!
    FISH-O

    :D That is hilarious!!!
    lindilou

    ParksVegas and Qualiwood...lol

    She was projecting her own 'weird' feeling-ness upon you...shrug it off or tell her to keep her delusions...er rather...observations to herself!!  Yikes! I can't stand to be accused of weird energy...especially when I am miles from nowhere as in absorbed in my own life-living things! Familiarity has a lot to be desired sometimes!Other times? Maybe not so much! Peace.

    lindilou

    In other words...yes..you had weird energy...hers!
    FISH-O

    I have weird energy today. ... :) It's allergy season.
    itsmee

    I was just strolling though the archives and I came upon this one! lindilou, what a fine answer to the woman who said "You have a weird energy." So if anyone says that again I will respond with your great words .I was talking on the phone today and I realized I was talking really really fast. The conversation wasn't going as fast as akaQA. Ha,

    Fishlet: For my allergies I take Sudafed with Pseudophedrine. In CA, you have to sign before you buy it. It's the only thing that works for me.
    mycatsmom

    good assessment of it,Lindi .

    I would have asked her what she meant.

    Ducky

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    :) Too simple.
    mycatsmom

    Ann,that's what I thought.

    You must have been on akaqa a long time.

    itsmee

    Ha ... That could happen. And does.

    I would have said this to her: "The energy coming out my mouth will be much weirder than it is now if you continue to comment."

    itsmee

    : )) That would surely stop her in her tracks.

    "KEEP AUSTIN WEIRD" is out city's slogan. Maybe you should move. Personally, I would not have minded the statement but I would have asked her to elaborate.....

    itsmee

    I used to live in a town called Hayward. It also went by Haywired and Hayweird. It was close to Berkeley which also went by the name Berzerkley.
    Julie, Could you call the mayor and ask? Just kidding!
    jhharlan

    Not problem....

    I'm very relaxed around most people and even more so, with "a friend of many years".  I can't imagine analyzing such a simple comment, because it wouldn't be an insult to me.  I wonder why you wouldn't just respond, "What do you mean?"

    itsmee

    too simple. : )

    Perhaps she felt a disconnection from what she usually feels around you.  Perhaps you were a bit distracted for personal reasons of reasons for which you aren't even aware.  Perhaps she was on a different "wavelength" and you weren't "there" with her. 
    You seem to take much to heart and become introspective, critical, and doubting of yourself.

    Your friends aren't as cool as you, for one thing.  For another, Ann (for whom you and I both have the utmost respect) suggested that you simply ask what she meant.  It would have certainly been my response, said because I was curious for explanation, not because I was offended.

    Lighten up on yourself, itsmee. You don't have to fit into anyone's mold.  

    lindilou

    I so do agree with the idea of being on different wavelengths of energy...we have many 'sayings' that evolve out of this like "I'm feelin' what you're saying' or 'I'm not diggin' that vibe' or (this one's a good one)...'let's get the heck outta here..the vibe in here sucks..' or 'don't go near that dawg, he's got bad vibes!'.Love the advice for itsmee...something we can all use! ;)
    Bob/PKB

    thankx lindilou: I feel you, baby. nice to have a TU on this.

    Then you must take good care of your health.

    I think she's someone who can pick up your vibes, or your auora. But, she shouldn't have described you in that fashion. That wasn't nice. But, it sounds like you do or did have a lot of energy. Were you a mover and a shaker at one time ?  Did you get things done ? That's a positive energy .

    itsmee

    I don't think I've ever been aware of another person's aurora or their vibes. I do have a lot of energy but that is not unusual for me.

    Women are strange creatures, and often impossible to understand.

    Ducky

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    Only by men who don't know how to "listen". :)
    nomdeplume

    True, but the questioner does not seem to be able to understand her (female) friend.
    lindilou

    Yes...and yes...again.
    I often wonder....
    why? oh why am I so strange and impossible to understand...must be my 'weird' energy...
    ;)
    Ducky

    Moderator
    @lindilou...lol
    lindilou

    QUACKERS INIT??? ;D
    mycatsmom

    that right, Nom. Even I can't understand them, and I am a woman! One thing I do know is.....they cry alot.


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