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    4. there is a girl I'm in love with but i can not pull myself together to ask
    there is a girl I'm in love with but i can not pull myself together to ask

    and say that i love her

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    +2  Views: 802 Answers: 6 Posted: 12 years ago
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      Starship trooper armor and in love with a girl.  That does not compute.  
       If you are too worked up to have an intelligent conversation, just hold off for awhile and concentrate on establishing a cordial friendship.  Get involved in group activities and invite her to join the fun (ice skating, picnics, other social times that don't require "pairing up").  
      I know a couple who hung out as a group for several years. They were friends. One day the guy asked the girl to marry him (mid 20's).  She said "yes".  They had never "dated".  Truth.  

      12 years ago. Rating: 8
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        nnamssew

        thats a good idea i shall try my best i hope i can do that thank you :)
        commented 12 years ago
        millie111

        Cool answer Bob/PKB:-)
        and well worth following;-)..Good luck!!
        commented 12 years ago
        nnamssew

        Thanks :)
        commented 12 years ago

        Your a bit young to have found the love of your life, but if you think your in love ask her out, be respectful to her and see how it goes. If she likes you too it may be the start of something wonderful, otherwise just learn from it.

        12 years ago. Rating: 4
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          nnamssew

          ok :)
          commented 12 years ago

          You snooze, you lose-You move your feet, you lose your seat!!!

          12 years ago. Rating: 4
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            we have gone in the same class since 3 now we are in 7 and she like the same things as i. its because i love her so much and if i not ask her soon are there maybe some one else there ask

            12 years ago. Rating: 3
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              nnamssew

              ok thanks for the help :)
              commented 12 years ago
              Bob/PKB

              Having read your dialogue with richardjames, you already have a great friendship. Who knows what may come of that. I ended up with my best friend for 9 years as BF and GF. Ya never know! If she is not getting involved with another boy, I would suggest giving her a quick hug, not face-to-face, but from an angle where your like cheeks touch (Think about this so you know what I'm saying). It's a friendly gesture without being too personal. She will straighten things up if there is more interest and you can follow her lead. Keep it quick and light, but give a little squeeze so she knows you are sincere. I hope she reciprocates; you seem to be a sincere, courteous, and genuine person. But, like you've been told, keep your main focus on your work, which is doing a good job at school. No one really likes a slacker. Wishing you the very, very best!
              commented 12 years ago
              mycatsmom

              ask her what? .......ask her out ? You're too young to date. You could hang out with her at after school activities.....if she feels that way about you.
              Or/ and save up your money and buy her a necklace. She'll get the hint.
              commented 12 years ago

              You have to be going out with her for awhile. You didn't say how well and for how long you've know her. You don't just go up to someone who you've only been out with once, or twice and say  "I love you "  In fact someone said you're 13 ?  That's too  young to be dating, but I guess you can go over to her house and sit on the front porch swing with her. 

              12 years ago. Rating: 1
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                fii barbat si insista asupra faptului

                12 years ago. Rating: 0
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                  mycatsmom

                  ??????
                  commented 12 years ago


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