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    ok so im 3 and this guy i dated once and we kissed alot but then soon i dumped him. we used to be bestfriends but then we dated and screwed things up. he is 14 btw. but last night he texted me saying we dont talk as much as we used to and i miss that alot and that really needs to change. does that mean he likes me or just wants to go back to being best freinds? help me cuz i thunk i might like him! i dont kno what to do.....

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    What is the harm in being friends ?You can never have too many friends, just enjoy each others company like you used to do.

    I had a good friend .  We let our friendship go past the talking stage and it was never the same.  I miss my FRIEND, but the status and feelings changed when we lost respect for our relationship.  We weren't interested in each other the way we had come to think we may have been.  The friendship waned. We will  never see each other again. 
    He misses his FRIEND.  If you can be his FRIEND, as you were before, then good for you.  VERY GOOD FOR YOU.
    If you can't get past the other stuff, and your feelings for him are not the same, I hope that you tell him that.  Friendships can not always survive intimacy.  
    As far as thinking you might like him, I'd suggest you "don't go there" for a long, long time.  You are both very young.
    Friends you keep.  Lovers you lose.  

    This is the third time you've asked this question using different words...Haven't you like any of the other replies you've gotten? Please read your replies or change the subject.......

    clu

    I totally agree! It's getting boring! 13 is way too young for all this drama!
    QT@@

    thank you!!

    Hope your more than 3, its well passed your bed time. nite.

    your to young to be doing that. my god. get your education first college then a job. then think about a boyfriend. . i fell inlove for the first time in my life and im 58 and she  is 33 and all relationships start out nice but things go wrong. . your brain is still developing. its fatchuation. rel love is more for the experienced. when there is a breakup when ur inlove u would rather have a tooth ache. u always think you have the rite one. well surprise. welcome to real life. some ppl the love bug hits around when there in there 20`s or later. its been going on 6months after my break up and i still hurt.  there is a big difference between just loving someone and being inlove. its alot of responsibility. and hard work to keep it alive.


    i was willing and when your with a younger person i learend alot from it. and by the way im still inlove with her and were friends and she has a bf already. thats another hurt part to deal with.

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