13 Answers
I would keep an open mind and open lines of communication. Stay on top of things but don't appear as if you are doing so.
My father had a similar relationship with a woman when we were growing up. The other couple were good friends. My parents did many things with this couple. My father would meet the woman for lunch and go to sporting events that her children were participating in.
My father has been happily married to this woman for 35 years this Summer.
12 years ago. Rating: 11 | |
If he is being open about it sounds ok to me. But if you don't trust him,, have it out with him and tell him you don't like it.
12 years ago. Rating: 10 | |
he`s being open about it ,do you have any reason to think something is amiss if not just roll with it.
12 years ago. Rating: 10 | |
Have you explained how you feel to your husband?
If he has already told you that what he's doing is of no consequence, then your options are limited.
You could make a big deal out of it, thus showing him that you don't trust him.
You could ignore it and learn to trust your husband.
You could invite the husband out for lunch. (Joke)
You can reflect on whether you feel the two of them have ever given you vibes to think there is anything untoward happening.
If you can honestly say it seems innocent, then despite the fact you think it's inappropriate for the two of them to lunch together without their respective spouses, you may have to let the situation go.
12 years ago. Rating: 9 | |
It's not a big deal unless you make it one. Marriage is all about trust. Do you trust him? Has he ever given you any reason not to trust him? If you don't trust him then your relationship has serious problems already. That said, watch for signs. As Nixon said, "Trust but verify."
12 years ago. Rating: 2 | |