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No, not ever. I usually forget the things that I have done for someone shortly after doing them.
Every once in a while I am reminded and it's almost like doing them all over again with an, "Oh yeah!" attached.
One thing that I do every year that I just love doing is... I know a Mom and a little girl that were alone for a very long time. Their journey has not been an easy one but, they are just fine now. Very happy, well loved and taken care of. Every year I have them over to make Christmas presents for the people in their family (All of who live far away). Last year the little girl spent time in my studio painting ceramic bowls and vases for her many family members asking me questions the entire time. She and her Mom are joys and I do think I get something out of it... wonderful memories.
12 years ago. Rating: 23 | |
Thanks Carmaxable. I just love doing it!
I am very grateful when folk take my suggestions and leave. That’s what they came to me for in the first place. I have been offered employment and money. Tipping the messenger isn’t necessary. When asked what do I want for the idea I gave them, I usually tell them “the opportunity to buy it at a local store.” The fact that someone is willing and able to take a great idea, manufacture a product and build the business up while supporting themselves, their family, employees and advancing from there is simply wonderful and I am so glad I did not have to do that myself. Working at a job or as a business owner cuts into your free time an awful lot and I prefer to be able to do what I am really good at…enjoying my free time.
12 years ago. Rating: 15 | |
When I offer to help someone, it is out of genuine desire to help. Seeing a happier face, a better grade, a strike or spare instead of an open frame (yeah, bowling again), a bigger refund than "the other company" came up with, weeding a flower bed, or dropping a spare quarter in someone's parking meter, buying a lunch for someone who is down on his luck and living on the street......I feel good when I am able to do something for another.
HOWEVER, I will not pretend that I go around LOOKING for people to help. It IS on my list of things to do, though.
12 years ago. Rating: 10 | |
I have too often wondered if my helping wasn't in fact interference in some way and more often than not discovered that it takes time to see a "helping" result.Case in point...2 folks living in a car last winter,old friends hit by hardship and taken into my home...3 weeks later and I'm having to say the words...it went something like..."Hey! This isn't rent-a-mommy goin' on here...I can't keep carrying you two so what gives?"...by the next day they'd found jobs and a house to live in...bittersweet but I felt awful at being forced to play the ogress!I learned right there that you have to be very careful about WHO to help and that when it becomes a burden...oy vay!! It took a while but when they showed up out of the blue one day with fresh Salmon and giant Shrimp galore for my freezer I had to admit that sometimes you have to go thru a little crap to reach the daisies!!! I still love to help but I'm more discerning as to whom and for what reasons.Peace.
12 years ago. Rating: 10 | |
Only if they are driving a Rolls Royce... he would say how can I ever thank you! And I would answer please, let me ride in your car. And he did and he was single and fell madly in love with me and we lived happily ever after. I did it again, please forgive my flights of fantasy must be time for bed.
12 years ago. Rating: 7 | |
No. The essence of good service is to provide it without any plus points in your favor, which is why I answer the foreign questions therefore not understood by most people here, therefore voted up only if the questioner knows what to do, and that too, only if the answer is satisfactory, and he likes to say thank you for the reply/answer. Otherwise not voted up or down by anyone. Happy with that. The element here is helping others. No ulterior motives, no karma points, just happy people!
12 years ago. Rating: 7 | |
You have 854 questions answered and only a mere 9 of them are foreign language questions. Do tell us again how you've rescued all the foreign speaking people by answering all their questions because only you can understand them. We get 10 or more per day asked in a foreign language. Who do you suppose answered the ones you didn't get around to after the 9 you answered in the 31 days you've been here?
I've answer 10 or more foreign language questions in a day here. It took you a month to answer 9. Either you're not as concerned about them as you claim to be or you're really slow in translating. Or you're simply a blow hard. Which is it?
Thank goodness for your brilliance and intellect.
I would sincerely like to thank you for pointing out the flaws once again, in the members of this forum especially myself. I have made friends on this forum. I also do have a sense of humor and use it.
No worries, you won't be making friends with me.
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2012-03-16 17:31:42
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