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Woman you need to get out of there and go to a safe place NOW.This does not sound very happy or healthy for you and you must stop playing this awful game with these people!! Do not stay anywhere you are not welcome...Do you have some family or friend to go stay with...someone he does not know??You must steal away girl!Can you do this very soon! It also sounds like you are suffering from depression,you know?Like sadness,worry,can't sleep?None of this serves you well so please take our advice collectively and get out of that place and get yourself into a safe loving place!Please!

He may carry out his threats, you should leave now. Just pack and go and don't tell him you're going. If you tell him he may really do something. With abusive men, you never tell them you're going. Pack when he's not around, call a taxi and go, don't wait around to find out whether he'll carry out his threats.

Take the advice of Eggplant, Lindilou and Umbriel.  Start a new life and then learn by this mistake.  Stay out of other people's business. 

These people probably were guilty but it is not your place to say anything... obviously.

Don't let this man have a hold over you, it is your life , not his.Is there somewhere you can go ?Womens refuge maybe, get yourself out of this situation immediately, if you don't,  it will only get worse.

What country are you in? This sounds scary to me.

Well, why are you staying there. Get the hell out of the place. Report it to the police.

It doesn't sound like you have anyone to support or protect you.  Get out of town as quickly as possible.  Leave no forwarding address.  Take only that which is 100% yours. 

Time to go.  be well.

get out now! before its too late....PLEASE..

Learn from this experience.  Be more cautious with men the next time. 

This is how wisdom is attained if you can learn from this crisis.

what a conceited a%% hole. Take care of your self.

Stay where you are. He can do nothing to you. You are surrounded by people who know you. Do not run because someone threatens you, which is just what he wants and then you also leave your home for him and his mistress. Never be afraid to face the music, because you cannot always be running from danger. Give him his divorce and say good bye. Keep it peaceful. If you feel threatened, make a police entry "for future information or reference only", so that you have proof of what you are alleging about him. And you can get the neighbourhood police to visit you from time to time (a paid service I think in some parts of the world, but the police are there to help protect you), this is also used against him in court if he does any harm to you. Keep the relatives advised that he has threatened you. You have a good backup support system amongst your own family. Have nothing to do with his, even though his mother and you are best of friends. Keep it close to your chest about him with those whom he knows and are his friends. If necessary, get a restraining order against him to keep him at a distance until the divorce comes through!. You cannot always run, because stuff like this always follows you. Pray if you wish, there is he who does protect!.