Mr. shy
And... love yourself for exactly who you are.
10 Answers
Colleen
No, it's not wrong. Just allow yourself the time to know for sure. It could just be puberty and things changing within yourself that you don't fully understand yet. I am a lesbian and I know I knew all my life but still didn't admit it til I was 18 or so, when I knew for sure and that it didn't have anything to do with any outside forces or influences. I know that I was born to be this. Make certain you can say the same in a few years before you mention it to too many. Take care of you and tell only those you are safest with. There is still a lot of hate in this world for homosexuals. There are some pretty awesome people too though who are great supporters. Hopefully you have people like that in your life.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 18 | |
Clonge
bluesman1951
Bob/PKB
It is wrong to pretend to be someone or something you are not. You are 12 and should be abstinent from all sexual activity until you are much, much older. I think a lot more than sex goes into the conclusion that you are hetero- or homo- sexual. Enjoy your activities and friends, stay busy and healthy. If you are really concerned, please talk to a responsible adult whose confidence you trust.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 11 | |
It's pretty had to have gay sex at 12 anyway. He might be the only one in his school. Kind of tough to find a partner that way. ;)
robertgrist
Age twelve is when you are looking at options and trying to see what options you like and what ones you don’t like. I thought it very interesting that so many of my peers had very strong opinions in different directions on every choice in such matters as sex, little social groups and motivation. Age 12 was chaos.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 8 | |
fjoel
gloriafrmCal
witchway
coolandy2000
No it is not wrong, but I think you should keep your options open. Don;t take it for granted that you are gay at age 12, by doing so, you cut off all the other experiences that life may offer you in your choice of friendships with people of the other gender. You could turn out to be a bi-sexual? You are only just beginning your life, don't put name calling and decisions until you reach age 18 or more. I have heard of both sexes who turned straight because they found the love of their lives in the other gender.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
mycatsmom
I've read many articles that say that a boy shouldn't decide he's gay untill about 18 yrs. That is because some boys play around sexually with each other.......kinda like when little kids get naked and look at or feel each other's parts. Therefore, a boy of 12 might just be experimenting and not really gay. You'll know better when you're older. So don't label yourself gay or straight untill you have some evidence and maturity .
| 12 years ago. Rating: 1 | |
