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I applaud them all.

Colleen

You don't make stars when you clap?

(clap harder)

I applaud all the care givers of the world Bill,you,re friend did an exceptional job,I hope he/she has moved on and now live their own life.

I recall Colleen saying she looked after her Grandmother, or was it Grandfather for years.

Personally I looked after my Grandmother for 3 weeks and it was too much for myself and my family at the time ( she had Dementia ) she passed away a short time after she left us, one of my many regrets.

Take care Bill.

R

Colleen

I'm not so sure I could have handle my grandfather alone if he had had dementia. Thanks for remembering my story in the other thread ;)

I know of two people who are doing this at the moment.  Truly amazing women.  They are my heros and amazing roll models.

Indeed you are correct may god bless all the of the unspoken heroes.

Thanks t...I will certainly join you..and salute to you!

thanks to you too, Bluesman!!! :)

Thank you bluesman. I took care of my mother with Alzheimers for eight years,. It was hard at times but I never regrettet doing it. It made me understand about life and how fragile it can be.

You would be including my 21 year old son (yes, the nut who thinks he can make a fortune at roulette).  He has been the main caregiver, chauffeur, and bodyguard for his 93 year old grandmother for over 2 1/2 years.  It's getting hard for him as her cognizance deteriorates, and she can be very rude and disagreeable. 
My friend promised his mother that he would take care of HER sister. He has had "Aunt Betty" with him for several years.  She has serious dementia. I don't know how he manages to keep a smile on his face no matter what she's up to, or when.  

ANYONE who can maintain an even disposition with the challenges often encountered in care has my complete awe and respect. Ann, ROOS, Colleen, you have special homes in Heaven, whether you believe it or not!

Colleen

Thanks for including me Bob but if I am to believe what the bible says as I've been told I should, unless I accept Christ, I won't be going to heaven. The good deeds and the love I put out will not matter over not accepting Christ apparently. I'll still do good with all my love anyway. I'm not scared, I'll still love God and all his creations. That's good enough for me.
My spot in heaven can go to a Christian. :)

Colleen

No, no, I'm a sharer! Give it to someone more deserving than I :)

Thankyou, we care for our little granddaughter 24 hours a day, seven days a week. She is like a daughter of mine.

THANKS Bluesman. i will pass it on to my partner, she is a carer in Pallative care, i am very proud of what she does.