15 Answers
That's a very broad question. In this society, we have laws that shouldn't be broken, so being different by not being law-abiding like most of the population is, is wrong. On the other hand, just think where we'd be if people thought it was wrong to be different, and acted accordingly. Christopher Columbus dared to be different by denying conventional wisdom that the earth was flat. The Wright Brothers were determined to fly despite all the pundits; they were different. There are loads of examples where different meant "right."
12 years ago. Rating: 17 | |
No, Sometimes it's the right thing to do. I like independent thinkers, I was never a crowd pleaser, nor did I follow the crowd. I blaze my own path. I am responsible for me and my decisions, I will pay for them, or be rewarded for them. I don't want to pay for not thinking and following someone else's deals like a robot. If I agree with them, wonderful, but be brave enough to say "NO" and walk away.
Look in your history books, it's full of people that were different.
Value your ideas! Being different is a good thing. It's what makes you an individual!
12 years ago. Rating: 13 | |
puzzled- trying to fit with what others proclaim is "normal" may not work and cause you misery if you see things differently than the "normal" folks do!!! (assuming your thinking isn't harmful to you or others ) You are welcome here! Many of us are 'different' and we appreciate that about ourselves and others.
12 years ago. Rating: 12 | |
Disagreement requires thought and courage to stand up for what may be untrue, unwise or wrong. If I am mistaken when a proposed course of action can be upheld as the best course, and qualify as the right thing to do in the face of alternatives, then I will do what is best. In disagreement I proclaim my equality among equals and challenge ways, means, results and effects in the spheres of influence such actions or inaction may have. I have a right to be mistaken and stand in defiance to be proven in error. But then I choose to disagree with care and express my disagreements respectfully, more as a question than a demand unless demands are required to have voice. Wisdom flows like a gentle moving river while demands are tumultuous and emotionally driven.
12 years ago. Rating: 11 | |
:)