16 Answers
I , have a friend who's answer would be F_ _ _ em all and he's right put them out of your mind they aren't worth it .
12 years ago. Rating: 11 | |
After that no more discussion.
dunc, I wasn’t saying that to you! You know that.
Treat people as you wish to be treated. Be a friend regardless.........
12 years ago. Rating: 10 | |
First of all, Abbs rules, DO NOT swear at people as a response to anything. That will just cause others, to lose respect for you. Just because someone says something "about you" or "to you", does NOT make it true, now does it? No one is liked by everyone and there is not a person anywhere, who is not loved by someone! Be nice to others, find interests that you enjoy, get involved in fun things, and soon you will have some new friends. Good luck to you!
12 years ago. Rating: 9 | |
That's a really horrible thing to be told and even worse to say to someone.
However, my first thought is: You might want to consider liking yourself a little more. OR perhaps liking yourself a little less.
Look for alternative social connections (sports, music, drama, scouts, 4H, faith, volunteer) and put your effort into being productive in those endeavors and genuinely interested in the other people involved.
12 years ago. Rating: 9 | |
Abbs rules: The person who told you that is a BULLY. What they said to you has no basis in the truth. If they knocked you down over that comment, you need to talk to someone you can trust about the issue - a psychologist, a teacher, a school counselor, a minister.
When I was younger, words like that would have devastated me. If someone said that to me now I wouldn’t believe them. I’d actually hate the person who said those evil words.
You will be ok. Get some help. ok? We’ll help you here ... but our help can only go so far.
12 years ago. Rating: 7 | |
Hating is such a huge emotional effort. Indifference to someone gets him/her out of your mind and allows you to move forward. Hating is a constant effort and harmful psychologically, emotionally, socially, spiritually, and physically. I don't encourage hatred.
I hope that you don't allow hatred to trample your good nature. You always bring clean air to aka.
Re: paragraph three: I concur
Everybody loves me, baby
What’s the matter wit choo?
I believe I will have my husband read your paragraph about my good nature. LOL. Thanks. It just ain’t the truth. I have a bitch side.
Find someone who is treated like you and be nice to them and you will become a loving and loved person, it will take time take it slow.
12 years ago. Rating: 6 | |
I've had the same prob, both in Jr. High, and in my adult life. All you can do , is try to make new friends, by going places where you can meet peeps that have the same interests as you. Then, talk about them with you're with them and use their name a lot when talking to them.
12 years ago. Rating: 4 | |