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Tell her to  leave along with that other person and change your locks.

"WARM" Relationship?????  Sounds pretty "HOT" to me!!

The key word in your question being "BEDROOM".

Do we really need to tell you what to do about it Or is your IQ really 50 as your nickname suggests?

Depends, is the other person male of female?

HELLO CITY/COUNTY/STATE MORGUE!!!

perhaps a step backwards, and then maybe a full trot without looking back..

Say all is NOT forgiven and don't listen to the excuses and don't look back........

Myself, in my own mind, I'd call it time to move on. No theatrics, no drama...as it's just not worth allowing someone else's actions to put you through all that goes with that situation. She played her cards, and now you know where you stand...and it's time to move beyond that!

Let her become someone else's headache, as she probably will be.

SADIQ50....Has this happened to you?  Is this a story?  Do you really want advice?  Wondering???

Ducky

Thanks Bob :)

The next step is calling a divorce lawyer who will make your spouse rue the day. Go for the jugular. That is your bedroom, your bed.  NO EXCUSES. NO TOMORROW.  
Don't be Hilary Clinton about it.  

Take 7 deep breaths, count to ten, and then tell him he had ten seconds to get out of the room before you go find your gun. lol.

O.k.,  truly going to prison for life isn't worth it! The best thing to do is just to leave the situation, and the next time you see her will be with your lawyers at court.

If she respected you to begin with, she wouldn't bring some guy to your house to have sex.

Jump in the "Bed with them and say "Hey lets make it a three some.

I just came form a gun show today.... !!! I can't comment  

Get Rid now and good luck

D0nt become second best to anyone, the only other person that should be in bed room is you. Kick her to kerb fast.

I hope this is a hypothetical question in which case my advise is to politely aske them: may I join you! :)

Well I see no need for theatrics, I see no reason to become bitter and twisted, I certainly see no reason for violence.

Just tell the person in the bed with your wife to go. Then sit down and decide who gets what with your wife.

There has to be a reason this happened and you are part of the equation, so as I have said before "Another colour on the canvass of life"

Life is all too short to allow something as petty, yes I said petty as this turn you into some sort of avenging angel.

Life is for living not revenge.That in the long run really does nothing for you, and shows you in your true colours.

I had a wife leave me and afterwards found out it was for another bloke, it knocked the stuffing out of me for a time but I was never bitter.

I just tried to understand the impossible to under stand.

She remarried after a series of affairs and died of alchoholic poison, how lucky was I that I did not have to go through that?

She was only in her forties.

Ducky

Life sure throws some unexpected events at times, doesn't it? :(

kill him

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hmm yes, lots of advice here:-)     pick up da phone and call da attorney!

There is a french saying for this - can't remember unfortunately - but I think goes like this ??? IT;S a real cool answer. You'll have to look that one up - but as far as I am concerned it' s Ok but may need some explaining.Sorry haven't read all the answers. I believe it is quite possible to love more than one person - with regard to the sex aspect I am not sure that this is an issue and may not even be included. 

1) If you love the person, walk away and ignore the vision. 2) If you do not love the person it is good grounds for divorce, take out your camera, camera phone and put it on record for future reference. A warm and loving relationship does not necessarily mean sex, so back to 1) if you love the person, let him/her give you any explanation that would suit to keep your relationship going, if 2) Say "Thank you, I was just waiting for proof!" but walk away, both instances. It is useless getting violent.

join in like theres not goin 2 b a 2moro.,and thank u lucky stars u caught her.

i dont need to worry myself i love life to much just get u own back give her mate one or her sister or better still her ma

THEFIRST THING TO DO IS GETING EVIDENCE OF THE SITUATION LIKE TO START TO PRETENDOF TAKING PICTURES BUT RUN THE VIDEO TAPE CAMARA AND MAKE THEM TO TALLK AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE AND THEN ASK THEM TO  GE T OUT OR GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE....

if u find your wife having sex with a differant man in ur bed room first of all try to what make her to act such and dont look at the physical cos there is sprit behind it .deal first with the sprit.

Dont hang around and be boring,ask them if they want an apperatiff,or just a tea or coffee,

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This happened to my baby brother.  He came home from his job at Home Depot at lunch time and found his wife of about 4 years in bed with another man.  My brother broke his finger hitting the guy.  They got a divorce.  My brother was depressed over it for several years.  They lost their new house and my brother lost the son which he thought was his, but wife told him it was not his.  My brother would cry some times and still has not totally gotten over it.  All the men in my family were upset, because they tend to take after my dad and are dedicated to the one they married and say they love.  It's tough.  But if you can, move on.  Get somebody that will appreciate you more.  Life is too short to be mad at somebody or to look back.  Forgive them.  Forgive yourself and move the sweet life on!

Be happy you found out! Imagine the skant she's been with outside your bed!

the bible says this is grounds for divorce legally in his eyes