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More importantly, why do you stay with a cheater?  Do you think that all of a sudden, one day, he will stop?  You said "He has a history of cheating on me"?  Hello?  Hello?

FYI....NOT EVERYONE CHEATS!!!!   STOP WASTING YOUR TIME AND DUMP HIM....NOW.

Ducky

For sure.

spaz12,             Why bother checking, as you said, he has a history of cheating, sounds like a dog to me. Is this what you want for the rest of your life, or as long as your cheating B/friend decides to stay around ? You look like a pretty girl, and Im sure you can find a decent boy friend, what you deserve. I pray, you dont have any children with him. I wish you luck, Dont be any ones Doormat.

You don't need to be wasting so much energy on this kind of crap!

If you want someone to be faithful, find a faithful person. If you want to be a detective, become a detective and make some money at it.

Ducky

Good answer! Find something you love to do and then make a career out of it! (detective work?)

i think it's him you should be asking.

Another one. What is it with you people? You get dumped on, you know it and you continue to stay with a loser. You already know what advise your going to get here. Looking for pity? Not from me. Perhaps from some on this site. Wake up. grow up.

Ducky

...and keeps asking the same question (worded differently)...over and over and over! ugh

To date, you have asked 4 questions, all related to your relationship, and all of them pointing at a very unpleasant, unhealthy, unsatisfying situation.  I've answered your questions consistently without making the connection.  So has everyone else.
YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS NOT A HEALTHY OR SATISFYING ONE.  NO ONE CAN CHANGE YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES BUT YOU.  WHEN YOU ARE READY, YOU WILL MAKE THE CHANGE. AT THIS POINT, YOU ARE NO BETTER OFF THAN A DRUG ADDICT, ALCOHOLIC, OR ANY ONE OF A NUMBER OF "SICK" PEOPLE WHO ARE UNABLE  OR UNWILLING TO GET THEIR LIVES OUT OF THE GUTTER AND BACK ON THE LANE. (Yes, that's a bowling reference.  I bowl; it makes sense to me)

Ducky

Yep. Same question...same answer.
The "girl" loves drama and here's another place where she can continue it. I'm outta here with this one.

Ducky

Draining isn't it?

Ducky

U2!

You know what if I had to check up on someone all the time and had no trust of that person I would get them out of my life period would be a senseless waste of time and life is too short to spend it with someone I cannot trust.

Can you try a little harder to get a life or concentrate on your education for example?

With looks like yours are you sure he is cheating on you? To me you look very very pretty and It wouldn't even cross my mind to cheat on you . So if your sure he's cheating on you and your not an outright pain to live with and you supply a good sex life leave now dump him wthout a second thought because there should be a Queue for you and a long one at that

once a cheat always a cheating dog