Bob/PKB
8 Answers
jhharlan
daren1
ed shank
That phrase is not something that I would normally use. If I'm listening to the same BS whenever a certain person approaches me, I take a different approach. My response to them is " shut the F*** up" I'm tired of hearing this nonsense. It stops and the earache is gone. Works for me.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 9 | |
Ducky
No, because when I need to "get over it" I will only talk about it once, with one person. I think these words sometimes apply when a person is living in the past and the conversation keeps coming back to the same topic, over and over again. How to get over it, is different for each person but, in general, I would say, try something new. If that doesn't work, then get counselling but don't burden your friends/relatives. They have enough problems of their own, which you may not know anything about.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 7 | |
melandrupert
doolittle
Doolittle has been stuck in the mourning & angry phases. It has become clear to me that every situation is felt differently by people and sometimes being "stuck" is necessary for growth.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 5 | |
I don't tell people to "get over it" too often and I've not heard that phrase directed at me. It would NOT be well-received.
Gorillas usually just tackle their talkative comrad who's stuck , then they tickle until the one who's stuck is laughing and laying again. But They also cry, moan, and sulk.
Elephants mourn their losses....they will move on but if the bones of their dearly departed are found years later those who were around then will re-mourn the loss. Elephants cry too. They also try to comfort the ones who mourn.
Birds, in general, are too busy protecting themselves from danger and eating to show outward mourning.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 5 | |
clu
