pej
5 Answers
daren1
ROMOS
I know your having a difficult time just now, in some ways it,s worse than a bereavement, the old cliche really is true," time is a great healer " I know you still love him and can,t understand why he has done this to you , but given time I think you will realise that even if he did come back to you, he,s did this terrible thing to you once and is most likely to again, leopards don,t change their spots very often. You need to move on, I know it,s easy for me to say that, but I have been through similar and I know the pain and the hurt goes away. Find someone decent, there are lots out there, I wish you all the best and luck for the future.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 4 | |
If you have lost a loved one you will never stop missing them, but the hurt and the pain of loss will eventually turn into all the memories, all the good times and the bad, and you will always remember them as you loved them when you were together, loving memories never to be forgotten
| 12 years ago. Rating: 4 | |
doolittle
Peg- I am sorry he left you for someone else! He broke your heart! What every one is saying is true- time heals....but how much time is individual. This time of year makes missing someone worse because it is supposed to be a happy time. But for many this season isn't so happy. There are two sayings I like. "give time time" and "fake it til u make it" with the second I suggest you continue yur life- keep up with friends, keep doing the activities you like "fake" being ok- eventually YOU WILL BE OK. Your feelings are legitimate and it's so good you can talk about how you feel. But please don't let them run your life- it will cause you to be miserable for a longer time. I'm sending A HUGE HUG to you!
| 12 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
Vinny
