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    when my doughter goes to school she starts to cry and she has not done that before and when we ask her why she says that she is scarde of thh men thas all she says .she is 5 years old

    and i dont know what to do

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    This is something to be investigated and brought to the principle or head of the school. This may explain her speech problem and why she is not progressing. As I suggested before, get her to a psychologist. You need to get out of her (gently) what men she is afraid of. 

    poptop

    she does not say
    Colleen

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    A psychologist might be able to get it out of her.
    poptop

    all she calls the men is men ghostis
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Well I'm not a professional so I can only offer suggestions. I can not give you answers as to why she is afraid of men.
    poptop

    its kind of freaking me out that she would be afrae of men of any kind use to at the store she would talk to the men that she would see now when she sees a man that she dont know she hihes behind me
    poptop

    she is not the one with the spssch problum its my son
    Colleen

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    I hate to say it but it sounds like she is being abused by a male. Take her to her pediatrician like Clonge said and have a physical done, looking for sexual or physical abuse.

    Sorry, I didn't realize you had switched to another child. I thought we were talking about the same one. How is your home life? You have two troubled children. Is there a lot of stress at home? Do they get enough time with you? Are they in the care of others more than with you?

    I don't mean to scare you, but she could be the victim of sexual abuse. Take her for a "physical". Don't wait; it's the weekend and in most locales, there's no school the next 2 days (in the US, anyway). Try also to find out why she is scared.I'd ask her "Which men?" "Does anyone look at you funny or stare at you?" "Does somebody go to the bathroom with you?" Did you promise not to tell something?" Talk to her teacher and other mothers. Hopefully her fears are unfounded from something irrational. Let us know the outcome. Thank you.

    hi

    eggplant

    What about your husband or boyfriend? Do you leave them with her. Question her and ask if she likes them. Is it the teacher? Is he male?


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