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    how u treat the popel while under the influenc of anger

    +2  Views: 397 Answers: 5 Posted: 12 years ago

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    Walk away from them. If they are that angry, you are not going to get through to them anyway. Don't waste your time or breath, walk away. 

    Angry , out of (self) control  people respond to me by calming down and recognizing what they are doing and give it all up.  It usually doesn’t take long.  Anger at me….."Thank you" is the only answer that helps. "Thank you.” stated flatly and repetitively says to the maniac that they have been heard and understood. "Thank you.” is the one response the maniac does not expect as they are in fight or flight thinking mode. “Thank you” calmly peacefully and in answer to every remark deflates all that puffy air in the suicidal maniac attempting to impose their will on all they see. Thank you…saves lives. Use it, love it.


    I am not concerned with what they are saying ….I say “Thank you” until they stop being angry and talk with me calmly and understand clearly and peacefully.    

    itsmee

    I’m going to try this. In my little life I don’t run into many angry people but it could happen.
    robertgrist

    The reason this works so well is in how anger is manifest in the angry person. Anger builds as pent-up emotions and repeat failures socially, mentally, physically. They feel put-down, oppressed, dis-heartened and down-trodden. Things are not going their way, they are not appreciated, in fact they may feel used and demeaned,belittled and/or oppressed again. The cumulative effect of put-downd is to accept it as true and fall into depression and deserving the state or angrily and explosively reject the collective insults seen as such in their own eyes. Suicide and violent anger have the same origin.

    If you are the one that is angry, just hold your breath and wait.  If they are the one with anger issues, just hold your breath and wait.....

    I never know what to do with anger. Are you angry? Or are they angry?  


    I don’t know how old you are and I just can’t say much. Try to give more information.


    It’s good that you are reaching for solution. Anger can be dangerous. Be Safe.

    Keep calm,keep cool and as Colleensays,walk away



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