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Angry , out of (self) control people respond to me by calming down and recognizing what they are doing and give it all up. It usually doesn’t take long. Anger at me….."Thank you" is the only answer that helps. "Thank you.” stated flatly and repetitively says to the maniac that they have been heard and understood. "Thank you.” is the one response the maniac does not expect as they are in fight or flight thinking mode. “Thank you” calmly peacefully and in answer to every remark deflates all that puffy air in the suicidal maniac attempting to impose their will on all they see. Thank you…saves lives. Use it, love it.
I am not concerned with what they are saying ….I say “Thank you” until they stop being angry and talk with me calmly and understand clearly and peacefully.
12 years ago. Rating: 4 | |