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Just my opinion as a woman.I was married for 12 years and in a relationship now for the last 5.

 Women want Understanding not blame, attention not smothered, stability not stupidity, to be needed not be a slave, to be pampered without feeling incapable, Conversation without conflict, We want to be the sexiest woman, best cook, best housekeeper, best lover, and best friend you have ever known. We want our men to be proud to have us by his side and shown off and even bragged a bit about yet not appear like your trophy. We want you to be proud of what type of woman we are and thats why you love us.  We dont want your friends or ours thinking we live everyday to do what we can for you because you are that damn good. We want everyone to think that WE love eachother and WE think we are lucky to have the other . women talk about how good a man is to her and how much he loves her. We do this because we love him and are proud to tell our friends the man we are with feel the same as you do. no more no less. Most of all we want you to tell us and show us. NO DOUBT we are complicated. But it really isnt hard as long as you realize everything has a balance , too much of one thing offsets the other.

I think men want simplicity.conversation not pointless chatter. interests in nongirly things but still be a woman and look ike one. Confirmation regularly that he's sexy, hard working, and intellegent without being too mushy. The want a lady in the streets and a whore between the sheets. Companionship without being smothering. Freedom to be a man , enough jelousy to show you care, A woman that looks nice at the end of his day but isnt gonna freak out about her hair if he wants to go out on the motorcycle. Understanding that he needs space and friends but not so much that he doesnt feel welcome at home. To be a Dad that he is not one you tell him how to be.

A man needs to be needed but wants a woman to do some things for herself for two reasons, He knows if he's not there you will be ok . and because he's not the maintenance guy.  Once again balance is the key.

You know your partner if you dont just sit back and observe. Wont take long for iether person to see what makes them tick. Men- We are ot mind readers!  If w dont know its broke we cant fix it.  Women- Dont assume just because you know that they they know too. We pay attention to things they do not( smells, last pair of socks or undies). But in fairnrss they pay attention to the things we do not .(warning lights on the car, sounds that some things making before it breaks. )COMUNICATION and listening will get you far. But again if only one is doing that then the balance is way off.