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Are you sure she is being unfaithful? If so then, quietly leave and don't look behind.....

D-I-V-O-R-C-E 

Colleen

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This is not the place for your Question..........Your wife is the first place you need to have the conversion with..............STAY CALM ...... Have someone there you both are close to.........

If you,re sure , GET RID, simple.

Leave her. This would be the only reason that I would ever consider leaving my wife. Forgiveness is not a consideration, given that we have been together since the age of five. My heart simply isn't that big.

We do not know both sides here ......do not want to sound like favoritism to any one  or wrong advice by not knowing all facts from both

Don't be to quick in judging your wife! she might be unfaithfull at time,I don't know anyone that is perfect all the time..

Colleen

When married, one should be perfect as far as being faithful. If they can not do that, then they should not be married.

Colleen

Cheating has no excuse. This is not just a simple mistake. Sorry. You cheat, you leave. End of it. I'd be a sucker to keep someone who cheated on me. Cheating would just show me the level they held me on, which would be, bottom of the barrel. No thanks. I'm better than that. The only people I can see who would give excuse to a cheater are cheaters themselves or have thought about cheating or people who are death afraid of being alone (which is not a good way of existing).

A good idea for your unfaithful wife would be to be tested for STDs.  It would be a good idea for you, as well.

Exclusive or inclusive. The difference between a marriage and a whore house. 

You have a lot to consider. Do you still love her and want to save the marriage? Do you have young children? I saw this on TV.> Get a sheet of paper and on one side, list everything good about her and your marriage. On the other side, list everything not so good about her and your marriage. Weigh your options then confront her and ask her who she want.  If she says the other man, then divorce her. If she says "I don't know", divorce her. Don't stick around until she do know, She can't have both. If she says you and the marriage is worth saving, and you are willing, then seek counseling. Just don't make a quick decision out of anger.

Or, you can ignore this post because I never been married, or in this situation.

Its time to say Good night Irene

move on , once a cheat always a cheat..

Does she have any FEP, future earning potential.

#1. Keep your head together.

#2 Keep your head together.

If this is a sincere question.     Find out from your wife WHY.   

Then your have choices and decisions to make.            Make the best one for all. 

i cheated on my husband many years ago. he was an alcoholic and he would rather get drunk than be with me. after a couple of years with no kind of affection or sexual things, i cheated. and you know what, he didn`t even care because he was too busy stayinig drunk. you do need to check out boyh sides. you just dont know what leads to what

What's good? A good lawyer!

"How much did you make dear?” “ How was it?” “Are you saving up Tuition money for the next semester?” “ Steak Night?”  “ Some young sweet thing for me?” “ Your mother called so I invited her over.” “Is there another man in your life….let’s celebrate!  ….when are you two love birds going to move in together so we can visit?   

Your gonna miss me when I'm Gone   Brooks & Dunn  says it best

" Whats good ? "  " Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. "Tell ya what! "

WHY IS SHE BEING UNFAITHFUL ?  This question is key if u and she want to honestly work on your marriage. Counseling. Or CUT LOOSE.