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    YOUR RIGHT COLLEEN, IM A FORMER LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICER(RET) I HAVE THAT MILITARY TYPE BLANK LOOK. AND THAT HAS CAME OVER INTO RETIRMENT. HOW CAN I GET THE UNAPROCHABLES OUT. PEOPLE DO AVOID MY SPACE AT ALL COST. EVEN WHEN I TRY TO SMILE. I CAN SEE THE LADYS LOOK, BUT THEY ALWAYS LOOK THE OTHER WAY WHEN I LOOK AT THEM, AS IF IM STILL IN UNIFORM??

    0  Views: 306 Answers: 6 Posted: 12 years ago
    sawali

    so the side effect not good- that's a great price to pay. but, with right attitude and proper dressing and mellowed voice, you can do it. It's alot of work!

    6 Answers

    Well, at least your picture is not blank.

    Get yourself mentally out of that mind set.....For good. We women are sensitive creatures............

    That's odd ,i thought women loved a man in uniform.

    reddog77

    TO BE HONEST, YOUR RIGHT. FOR OVER 21 YEARS I COULD SEE WOMEN OF ALL AGES GIVING ME THE ONCE, TWICE, AND SOME EVEN A THIRD L.O.L. OR HEAR SAY FROM THIRD PARTY PEOPLE WOULD TELL ME.
    pej

    some of us do, only the sweet and good-looking one... :P

    Try wearing a prison outfit, women always go for the bad boys.

    pej

    bad boys, yes <<<<< but not in a prison outfit --- ewww, very turn-off, if I may say.

    You may still be showing some of the law enforcement officer attitude, coming off as too strong (?).  Women want some sensitivity in a man too I think.  Try a different hair cut. Let it grow some. Maybe the cut you have now is making you look too serious. I can only guess and suggest as I do not know you. 

    ANSWER THIS,  IM NOT KNOWN TO BE SHY.  SO  NOW AFTER RETIRMENT FROM LAW ENFORCEMENT AND NOT IN UNIFORM,  I HAVE BECAME A LITTLE SHY.  AND I JUST WANT TO ASK A LADY OUT THAT I HAVE JUST MEET, OR EXCHANGED KIND WORDS WITH AT KROGER, I KNOW IM A WIMP, I JUST CANT. ITS ALWAYS IN THE PAST BEEN SOMEONE THAT I HAVE KNOWN FOR A WHILE.  SHOULD I JUST GET OVER IT AND ASK?

    Ducky

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    Yes. What's the worst that can happen?
    lambshank

    I agree, you should just ask, worst that can happen is they say no,
    pej

    get over your timidville, ask her out unless of course she's already taken... good luck


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