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    who do i tell if my dad is ruining my life?

    +2  Views: 782 Answers: 5 Posted: 12 years ago

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    don't think that way your dad just wants wat is best for you so just accept it and move on life is great :)

    Mum, but if she,s not " listening " a teacher or other responsible adult,

    clu

    Good answer!

    How is your dad ruining your life? Is he beating you? Is he being sexual with you? Is he mentally attacking you, calling you bad names and making you afraid? If he is doing any of these things, call the police. If he is doing none of these things then he is not ruining your life. Ruining your fun maybe when you think you should be able to do anything you want but he is not ruining your life. He may actually be saving it depending on what it is that he is not letting you do. 

    carmaxable

    that was my next question. you are absolutely right. most kids, i think, tend to think that when they cant get their way. i hope its not serious.
    djkid

    nope he is just telling people about things i don't want him to tell them. i'm getting so tired of it. even a big brother would be a little nicer... Dad also called me an idiot
    Colleen

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    Well neither of those things are report-able offenses. Try not to do things that are embarrassing to you that he can tell others about. He should not call you an idiot but sometimes parents do not think first, they just react when you do something that goes against their rules or something that can be dangerous to yourself or others. Watch how you act or speak and you will give him less to hold against you. That's the best advice I can give.

    If your dad is doing any of the things that Colleen mentioned, then, yes, you need professional help, and fast. But in truth, the only person who can ruin your life is you. You have it within you to overcome all obstacles. Find a friend that you feel safe in confiding with. Sometimes a good friend is the best medicine.

    You can ask him.



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