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    do you believe in friendship between man and woman?

    +4  Views: 835 Answers: 15 Posted: 13 years ago

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    I have men friends and they are wonderful.  I adore them.  Why ruin a great thing?

    Yes of course,much easier than a relationship.

    Without a doubt my best friend is my wife , if that ain't a friendship between a man and women then what is..

    Headless Man

    Well said, I agree...

    I have many friends of both sexes, some are mutual friends with my husband some are not, some Ive known many years longer than my husband, as he, some of his friends.Neither of us like all of our friends, same can be said for our families, some I like, some I don't. Friends are not always easily found and are to be treasured, whatever they are, male or female

    Of course you can I my best friend is my Hubby

    I have two woman friends that I've known for nearly 40 years. One spends a lot of time with me on the weekends in the summer as we have an interest in the same sport. Wife is cool with both of them.

    " When I am in that one place and she is in that one place there is only (one)."

    Definitely!Good friend of mines a man,i treat him like the kid brother i never had although hes actually older than me.His wife doesnt bat an eyelid as its strictly platonic

    eggplant

    That's what you think. I'll bet his wife sizzles like a sausage on a barbeque.

    Yes men and women can be friends. One of my best friends is a man, we have been friends since grade school. He is also my husbands friend.

    No . Friendship is the one who does everything needed  while some other guy has sex with your so called friend .Much like second place is the first loser . . If you are there for the moving and all the other stuff then she ought to be sharing the benifits as well.  My answer to this is no . If you arent all in then you are wasting time . Women who look for male friends are choosing puppies   and fools . Just my opinion .

    FISH-O

    Your answers just kill me. It is as if you have met the only bucket load of crummy women on this planet ... and that's it! I truly can't believe your luck.
    It has to get better.
    dunc

    Fishgirl you sound good, happy, lovely ,nice to be around would probably find you attractive also though somthing about contact with women can't fail to find somthing about them which attracts it's nature. I'm finding you attractive sitting here 3000 or miles away
    bluesman1951

    Yes perhaps so . But what part is not true ? Do you intend to sleep with someone you call friend ?? I think not. You can bet your last dollar the one who is doing all the crap stuff is hoping to sleep with you. Brutal perhaps my words ,but say it is not so,tell me its a lie or untrue if you can. Rember I spent 10 years living in Las Vegas . I also worked the door as a bouncer in two big strip clubs in Los Angles . Ran some adds on the inter net for dating ,had more than two thousands answers do you wish to hear some of those horror stories . I have ridden the bus nearly every day for 15 years in this toilet called Albuquerque heard every kind of conversation there can be between women on the bus.Then of course there is my own personal experience ,and my reward for years of loyalty.Take my words at face value and ask only one question ,True or False ???
    FISH-O

    When you put it that way bluesman there is no hope.... you know it just kills me to say that!
    Optimism is in my blood.

    Thanks for the compliment Dunc. You are too sweet!
    bluesman1951

    Fish Girl : The question remains are my words true or false ? I am a people watcher I see other things people miss. I watch body language and dynamics . I create situations where people will lie to me so I can watch their faces and see what is going on in their heads. Its comfortable like a warm blanket thinking we have friends and we cling to that for many reasons .You are a special person and I will not throw cold water on your ideas.I ask only that my words be considered at face value in the light of true or false . Imaginary umbrellas surrounding our lives like glass cake protectors are a safety net we cling to making our lives acceptable . I guess you can have what you imagine and think ,thats good . I envy that its something I dont have .Imagine for a moment 25 years of flea markets as a vendor and 1,000s of trading posts pawn shops ,galleries leather dealers .Pow wows and trade shows wholesalers of all kinds ,hustlers liars game players con men and women ,thieves ,and sharks users and losers. My path has taken me down a rough path and led me to speak my mind regardless of the out come as long as I believe my words to be true . I still havent mentioned the tending of bar with 100% of the customers being hard core Motor cycle gang members . More than a 100 scooters outside on a Friday night. When I close my eyes I could tell you of many things including what Rio De Janeiro Brazil looks like after dark . To say nothing of the waterfront bars in Italy and the rest of the Med .Yes I am both old and jaded ,wounded and angry totally flawed well on my way to being a curmudgeon . I once was a nice guy those days are long gone . Bill

    Men and women CAN be friends.  
    Spouses SHOULD be friends, not necessarily BEST friends.
    Friends who are not spouses SHOULD NOT have sex with each other and think their friendship will not be affected.   If you want to have sex with a friend, move the relationship from the circle of friendship to the arena of romance.  If you don't think of that friend romantically when you think of him/her sexually, then you are just being horny. (There's nothing wrong with that, just understand what you're feeling.)  

    I absolutely do because I have a male friend who is as dear to me as a brother and there is absolutely no sexual tension between us. (And he is most definitely NOT gay.) We have been friends now for 21 years.

    I have a few men friends who don't attempt to enter sex into the equation. We're just friends

    My answer is YES, a friend of my wife and I,female, went on a 10 day trip with me staying in the same room at motels for cost reasons.


    I was a gentleman and let her have the double bed and I took the single.


    No hanky panky but we still had a nice time sightseeing.

    melandrupert

    I know you are the perfect gentlamen xxx

    I don't trust other women. One of my so-called friend wanted to sleep with my husband because she wanted to get pregnant. Her husband was very dark skinned and she wanted a child of a lighter colour. Her husband eventually committed suicide. She did have two lighter skinned kids, but I don't know if they were his.


    There is much more, but I rest my case.



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