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    How to get a woman who has lost faith in men to go out?

    +2  Views: 943 Answers: 8 Posted: 13 years ago

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    You don't. Give her time to heal, it may take a while. Just be there for her..........

    jhharlan

    It's not up to anybody but the woman hurt...She doesn't HAVE to go out if she doesn't want to...I don't like going "out".......

    My advice is to look for someone else to ask out.


    This one sounds like a real PROJECT. 


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    Shootah

    Hm...I guess that must be a fixer-upper!
    daren1

    how did you get my mother in laws picture..
    PANDA

    "I hope she can cook!"
    TSC

    The GREEN GUMS are attractive huh? ;)

    What makes you think that feeling is exclusive to women/ We are tired of you and the games women play as well. Don't like men any more then play for the other team ,get some comfortable shoes and stay home. Its a two way street  having faith.

    Colleen

    Moderator
    Have you lost faith in women blues? If so, does that mean you'll be playing for the other team? ;)
    bluesman1951

    Contempt would cover this better. Me on the other team unlikely. I have a few years left and all I wish for is this ride to be over. And for justice and to send my ex straight to hell with my foot in her back side
    Ducky

    Moderator
    Hating someone is the same as drinking poison everyday and hoping that the other guy dies!!!
    ed shank

    Ducka. Great answer.

    Pay her plenty of attention but do not smother. Be chivalrous and helpful in ways she needs. Let her know she is important in your life and that you are seriously there for her (and you had better be), and then have your antennae up for signals that she is becoming more interested and more into you. Do this in all sincerity, with the intention of the long haul. Do not do any of this if there is the chance, for what ever reason,  that you may wind up hurting her all over again. That would be unforgivable. Take it slow. Good luck.

    bluesman1951

    You most likely do quite well with women using this approach. I on the other hand don't care the part of me that did is dead .Thats my reality and I am okay with it.No interest in changing course now '
    michmar118

    It DOES work well, bluesman,....I know because I am a woman. I feel awful that you've had such a bad experience(s) with a woman in your life. I can tell how much you hurt from what you write here. Not sure, though, I believe you when you say you have no interest in changing course. You obviously are a passionate man and deserve to finally meet the right, and faithful, woman to enhance your life. Good women are everywhere, but you have to look AHEAD to be able to spot them. Use your experience to help you and ask pointed questions as you go along. Your natural intuition and your past experience will be your friends. Listen to them. BOL (best of luck):-}

    Leave her alone, she's better off.

    Take her to a costume party and dress up as a woman, lol. Good luck sounds like she isn't ready to get involved yet, you may be better off waiting for her, or just letting this fish go. There are many more in the sea.

    patience. Be a friend. Listen.

    take your time, be there as a friend. maybe even do the group date for a while.



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