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You need to be as honest as possible and tell them very clearly that you need help.  You need to explain very simply and quietly that you need support and you need assistance to find that support.  You, above all else, need to be as simply truthful as you can possibly be.  Avoid explaining the reasons just, get to the first part which is ............ getting the help you need.  The rest will follow.

If that person will not listen find someone who will.   It is not about that person.  It is about you.

If you are just being theatrical please don't post these types of questions because there are people here who have lost loved ones to suicide.  The experience is devastating and does not go away.

You are the only person who can fill you up.  Life is valuable and you are inside of it.  Seek help.

"i hae lost my sister to suicide."

The only thing you learned from her death is how to be selfish yourself. She wasted her time by killing herself. You would do the same? Your problems go with you. Death does not erase them. No one can make you feel anything. Only you can make yourself feel. We come into this world alone and we die alone. No one is responsible for your life other than you. Only a selfish person would want to drag someone else into their messed up world. Get help and stop trying to make people be as miserable as you are. 

Why do you think that your explaining will make a difference - sounds like you are the needy one and this is often the way young girls approach this when they like someone which is  quite immature and unrealistic a form of blackmail which should NOT be used ever and most certainly NOT to get your afftections returned. This is projecting and placing a terrible burden on this person, people around you and your relatives. Please get professional help as suggested here!!!, this is such a selfish act and quite often done privately.. . What are you saying about vacular necrosis? Oh yes I remember - the girls helped you so much here, please get help with this - there is help.

Suicide is a personal problem and shouldn't be used for blackmail....Seek real help.....

The problem with Sucicide is whilst your alive you can if you want to become undepressed and repair what you consider to be wrong with your life, if your dead you cannot repair anything your just gone ,finished, ended out of sight out of mind forgotten and the world will carry on without you regardless  you will just upset your relatives for a little while and even they will get over you . So If I were you I would not even consider it depressed or otherwise .

These people here are wonderful.  The lot of us can give you support in a computer-kind-of-way.  You ask and then you yell.  I call "Foul"... that is not fair for this lovely bunch of coconuts.

jhharlan has all sorts going on but she's not upset ... she is glorious.

Jenn has all sorts going on but she sends out wacky and fun questions ... also glorious.

Mom has so much going on that everyone would like to help ... seriously glorious.

Bob/PKB is over the top with her things going one and she is a Beauty Queen.

Randy Palmer is a joy ... his stuff is over the moon ... glorious times infinity.

I am practically allergic to myself.  I can't go outside most days.  I can't eat the way other people eat.  I can't take my car in for repair because I am allergic to chemicals in the smallest (for me and my reactions ... the largest) state of affairs. I am walking and talking sick all over the planet most days.  Everything hurts.  I just don't give a flying fig!  This is my life!  I want to live it and I will.  God gave me this because God thinks I have the guts.  Someone has to walk in these shoes and IT IS ME!

Life isn't a cake walk.  We have to overcome all sorts of obsticles and that Baby is what life is about.  The journey.

The universe will respond if you are whining and the universe will respond if you sing.  I suggest you stop beating everyone up and start singing.  I can't fix your problems but I can be here and I have a large capacity for appreciation.

Life is a glorious adventure.  Start singing.

You say this person does not have major depression??? Are you serious? This would be distressing to anyone - even if they were full of the joys of spring or LIFE.