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    boyfriend wants me to go & do things he like !

    his place , his fishing ,all about him.

    +3  Views: 578 Answers: 13 Posted: 13 years ago

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    He lacks consideration for your wants and needs. and I daubt this is going to change. People rarely change. You have to tell him how you feel. If he continues beeing selfish you have to make a choice.

    Is he your boy friend or is he your boss?


     

    Next time, make him do the things that you like to do.


    it's only fair.


     


     

    Find someone else, dear.

    If he does not consider your thought and interest now... It is not going to get better with time... You need to decide if you are willing to sacrifice your identity to make him happy. (there are guys out there who will want to see you happy doing things you like).

    Drop him NOW,  he will never change and if you stay with him you are in for a life of misery!!  Cut your losses now and start anew,....for sure!!!!

    Tell him to piss off. So many men to choose from and you picked this ZERO. Really.

    If you dont like it, leave it

    break up with him

    Compromise......Have turns in deciding ,relationships are not a one way street.

    What to do,   he is to selfish, to think of you. I have had this experience in past, After four years, he had not changed,  I told him to get one way ticket, I didnot care where too. Your boy friend wont change either. Relationships/marrage should be 50/50. You can do much better in your life. Go for it.

    That is good so that you can know more about him.

    How nice that he wants you to be with him so often!   Have you asked him to do things with you?
    If not, what do you want from him?  If you have, what was his reaction?  Are you going to be doing some of the things you like to do? 
    If you have suggested doing things together and he doesn't do things that you want to do, you may be with someone who is uncompromising at best.  If you have always been the timid, whatever he wants to do kind of girlfriend, he is not acting wrong....he's acting based on experience.



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