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I strongly believe, If you love them let them go for a better life.

a person should not waste their life. it is to short.

Weigh the pros and cons before deciding anything......

 Ithink some ppl can live through the lack of emotional and physical connection.. "weather the storm"... In my 17 year marriage I have at times truly beleived there was nothing left for either of us to give.

Living everyday honestly believing the life is being sucked out of you is nothing I would wish on anyone. It got to the point that I told him to leave.. That weekend I wrecked my fourwheeler and crushed the right side of my face... He had to stay to take care of me. 2 months after that he wrecked his motorcycle and broke his fibilula and tibia... I have to stay to take care of him. During this time he made major inprovements on his temper and lack of concideration. (we found out he had hypergonadism) He starting taking testostorone and started to resemble the man I married (emotionally).

I dont believe that a marriage is worth torturing yourself over... I believe that if all avinues are taken to try to make it work, if you give it the time and attention it needs... and it is still breaking you into pieces... you should close that door, and open a window.

I believe too many people get married because they want a dress and a party. Not understanding the work a marraige requires. IN that case I dont believe that marraige is valid.. Those two did not pledge themselves to eachother... they pladges themselves to a mountian of debt.

By the way.... My marriage has never been better! It took some time. But i fell back in love with the man I married!

The marriage is dead? Bury it and move on!

If by any slim chance it can be revived, it's worth a try. This is when you loved the person you married. For the ones who thought they were in love, but were in lust. Leave, run, be smarter next time.

I think life is too short to be in a state of prolonged unhappiness.

If the situation is beyond saving you are both entitled to try and find happiness apart.

If you have tried to sort it out rhen it is time to get out.

"Til death do us part "is a load of hog wash, every one deserve happiness so if there is a supreme being, which I doubt, he/she would not want you to be miserable. Unless the supreme being is also a miserable sod.

Not into necrophilia. No, I wouldn't. If things went bad for me today, I would take my share of the marbles and suck out every minute of life that I could with someone who digs me.

dont stay if there is cheating but if something can be fixed try that first but if anything isnt working dont stay you have one life to live you dont want to be unhappy for the rest of it

I stayed in an often times stormy and rocky marriage for 28 years because of an inferiority complex which I finally overcame, and moved out when my youngest graduated high school. I vowed to never again be in that situation, and am much happier for it. It is very easy for us to ask why someone will stay in a bad marriage, but much harder to live it.

yes i would, maybe theirs still a pulse.. after that "cpr" and then ?

If it was just a dull marriage, I'd spice it up. If there's no abuse or anything, if you bail out, you'll prob never find someone as good as your spouse. It there's minor  children,, stay in the marriage, for the kids sake,----as long as there's no heavy drinking or abuse.

 Get rid of them.

God gave us all free will to do as we choose, it we chose to violate his commandments we are free to do so.

When we married in the presents of God we made vows to him, that we break at our peril, one of which was "Till Death Do US Part."

If one does not believe in God, that's their problem and theirs alone alone.   One can share their opinion, but one can not advise another on subjects of morality, IMO

Any marriage can be saved if God is in the picture ( watch FireProof ) but if one is unfaithful you are free to move on.

I think some times a person stays in marrage, because they are bit scared of going alone, and not been able to cope, even with out children.The thought of starting over, can be daunting.