Im adopted. From what i understand i was adopted through a lutheran social services place long ago. Might be interesting to find some info about mother, i dont know. My real parents are the ones that raised me.
Zorro, if you live in the U.S. and the case was done in this country, you may be in luck. Lately, closed adoption cases can now use the assistance of intermediaries, usually someone from a law firm. This person takes your signed petition to a judge in the state where the adoption occurred to have it approved. Once approved, the intermediary seeks out your bio parent or parents and asks the bio parent if there's any interest in learning more about the child. If the answer is positive (something in writing from the bio parent), the intermediary goes back to court to ask the judge to allow the contact between parent and child to commence.
Let me know if you would like more assistance. Good luck.
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My mom was.. and I would love to find out more about her bio mom.. I have everything on bio dad. I never met my bio dad.. I found him 6 mo after he died,,, But cant really get any family history on him. Even though I met his brohters and sisters... Also 2 sister that I have.
13 years ago. Rating: 12 | |
I dont know my Bio father and I dont wont to know he never looked at me when I was born and he told my Mother never to get intouch so hey we never did! as far as I am concerned my Father who addopted me is my real Dad and I loved him to bits yes it is true that I would like to know wether I had half sister/brother and you do fantasize about things but I am happy with my Mum and my poor dad who is now deseased
13 years ago. Rating: 9 | |
My son was adopted away from me and now that he is of age, I'd like to find him...
13 years ago. Rating: 8 | |
i understand that. i wasnt adopted but i was orphaned. my friends mom had her out of wedlock and she said her dad made her but her REAL dad raised her. that just meant that she loves him and hell always be number 1. her mom had gotten married to someone else. which i think is wonderful that a man will love and raise someone elses child!
13 years ago. Rating: 8 | |
Never met my Bio father. I did find him and contacted him by phone. He told me never to contact him again. I also have three sisters, they also told me to piss off. Be careful what you wish for the outcome may just cause much more pain. Be content that you had people in your life that loved you.
13 years ago. Rating: 7 | |