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    Why do men propose marriage?

    My job, as some of you guys know, is editing books for a literary agent. I don't get the Tom Clancys... mostly Slush PIle... and it isn't just editing as in correcting grammar etc. A book is PERHAPS marketable or I woudn't see it, but sometimes I have to suggest massive changes. Male writers almost always include sex... NOW many are trying to widen their market, & increase their chances of publication, by adding love interest to get women reading thrillers, crime etc. How do I judge they've got it right? If they haven't they lose their main market, the men. So... suppose you are free & you meet a sexy female. What would make you fall in love enough to propose, rather than trying to get her into bed?

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    Become a friends with her and spend some time with her and be there for her in any situation.
    suliz

    You sound a very nice guy :-) The question is, if a male writer shows that in a thriller, will men stop reading?
    Benthere

    I'm nice too.
    Andrew

    Well, porbably yes, because thats turns in to chick flick, but mostly all men wants fast action involving fast sex
    suliz

    Now THAT is what I wanted to know.
    why not propose while you making love?if she says yes you already on a honeymoon, if shes says no you can wipe your tears away with the prenup. papers
    suliz

    I love you all... but WHY PROPOSE AT ALL?
    daren1

    maybe i like to be rejected
    Read the question carefully, there's good chaps, or I'll go away thinking all men will read the romances I get to edit.
    You pick up a book - Live & Let Die - yes I know I pinched that from Ian Fleming. You know you'll get action... sex... HOW MUCH ROMANCE WOULD YOU READ BEFORE YOU BINNED IT???
    Would it be okay for Bond to fall in love with, rather than just have sex with, the girl? (He did in one book... I THINK her name was Tiffany... did it work for you?
    Can my writers get away with their hero falling in love & proposing marriage while finding bodies or shooting people???
    Why not I think there is nothing wrong with that, I'm pretty sure there is plenty of men would love that
    suliz

    OK. So you are NOT going to call it chick lit and bin it.
    Andrew

    Well I personally like action with some love in it and I wouldnt bin it


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