Jenn
19 Answers
banksizit
matheneyg
Colleen
Flip
whovin
leosmaml
jhharlan
FISH-O
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| 13 years ago. Rating: 8 | |
Dollybird
sadiesays
If you don't know the guy, tell him no thanks. Then get out of the situation. I would not tell the wife if you don't know her. It is their marriage and it is none of your business. I would tell my husband just incase the whole scene gets turned around on you somehow. There are a lot of crazy people in this world and one should not mess with strangers, they are not always playing with a full deck.
You may want to stay out of wherever you were that made someone feel it was OK to ask such a thing.
| 13 years ago. Rating: 8 | |
robertgrist
“No” is an answer that you should exercise using a lot. “No” says “I am an adult and that is my answer.” Pleading, begging and crying is not an adult answer to “No”. “No” is a word women everywhere should cherish as their banner of equality. “No means “No”, get use to it. “No” is power in woman speak. Women with power are awesome. Get “No” from between your lips and mean it.
| 13 years ago. Rating: 7 | |
And so "has you are a piece of shit". I am not a very nice person when it comes to dumb men.
eggplant
Chiangmai
ed shank
Bob/PKB
Jenn, why are you having any kind of relationship with a married man on the internet and letting it get to the point where he wants to screw you? You have mentioned issues with fidelity, so I am thinking this is some way that you sabotage yourself.
(I am getting ready for dinner with a friend, so will keep this short. I know, for a change.) MY OPINION is that you stop having any kind of interaction with this man immediately. You do not tell his wife (maybe she thinks you are coming on to her husband and is getting ready to rat you out?). There is nothing to be gained by saying anything to her. There is nothing to be gained by having anything more to do with him.
Then, you find yourself a therapist who can help you figure out why you put yourself in the situations you find yourself in and how you are going to stop doing that! I have a hunch that it has something to do with your "self-esteem".
If I am off base with this, I apologize. I've not been here long enough to really know much about everyone yet. If I am close to bing on the mark, I hope you take me seriously. Love you.
| 13 years ago. Rating: 5 | |
I am faithful to my hubby, but my mind wanders. I am probably harder on myself about it than I need to be. I would like for the only man I think of to be my hubby. But i have a weak constitution, I suppose.
This jackass, who I have never met, just started messaging me on facebook. I asked if I knew him. He said that we had never met, but he wanted to come visit me. I told him to go to hell. But was curious about who he might be. So I tooked on his profile,And he was married and had a small child. I felt terrible for her. I can only imagine that this tactic has worked before for him. Goodness at all of the drama, and disease he could be bringing home to this girl.
No suggestions on the wandering mind. You might look into a few therapy sessions to focus on that and, if you need to strengthen your constitution, how you do that. Keep us posted on how this plays out with Mr. 2-Face.
Don't beat yourself up, either, but try to remember to treat others the same way you want to be treated. How would you react if you found out your hubby was having relationshhips with other women, via the Internet? """Do unto others............."""
I have block the guy from my fb account. And I have decided to leave well enough alone. I cant take on the world right now. But the sleeze is going to mess with the wrong girl one day. Karma is a b*^%$.
If you think telling the wife will result in something positive and beneficial to her (and you don't know the first thing about her), then proceed, but your tale must start at the beginning and leave out nothing. You don't just blurt out the punch line without setting the stage for it. FULL STORY
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you could be translated as do what is good and right and just in your relationships with others. You want others to be kind and fair with you.
And, don't do this again. Look for ways to make the reltionship with your husband more fulfilling. Realize that you don't need validation of your attractiveness (inside and out) from strangers on FB or anywhere else. It's the people who know you and love you that matter.
dowsa
itsmee
Lupe
amfortas
It is a modern accepted fact that a woman can do anything she wants, especially if it f'eels good'. And no-one is permitted to stop her or even criticise her. She can 'follow her heart; or be 'swept up' in passion. She can 'explore her erotic multi-faceted nature'. With whomsoever she wants.
So, equality would mean a man can do the same. Shirley?
Further, telling the spouse about it would only cause him/her to object. That is already declared to be 'abuse'. 'Controlling'; 'Restricting outside friendships'; 'criticising'; 'emotional violence'. etc etc. So you would simply be instigating an occasion of abuse and therfore a felony.
| 13 years ago. Rating: 2 | |
