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I truly believe RESPECT,TRUTHFULNESS,TRUST are the best ingredients for couples to stay faithful to each other.....if my husband cheats on me...I KICK HIM TO THE CURB!!!!

Some are jerk wads that think it is funny to lie and do things behind someone's back. They have no understanding of Christianity and the importance of love and treating the person you have chosen as a spouse as the most important part of life. Some men have no ability to understand what life is about and what is required to lead a happy, satisfying life. Some men like to be miserable and want to cause everyone they know misery too. Some men end up marrying jerk wad women who cause them to go out with other women.

With out cheating women, they be no cheating men. Not all women, who play around are single, Men look for adventure, and for some reason, the grass on other side of the hill, is always greener, or so the male thinks.

Men cheat and lie about it for the same reason that women cheat and lie about it. I've been in that situation before, but never will be again.

Sounds like someone got burned by their beau.

This is crazy to even try to call one person worst than the other, both sex's cheat and lie no matter what the statistics have to say, there are many who never get caught. People cheat due to many things, one being insecurities within themselves and trying to build the ego by having outside attention. The thrill of doing something secret and not getting caught. Actually being in a relationship that should be over. The funny thing here is I have to bet if they could keep the sex and love exciting and strong at home and give and receive the same excitement and loving from the spouse, they would never even consider going outside the relationship.We all get used to one another and get tired as the daily routine and sexual pleasure seems to repeat itself. Spice it up, get crazy, do something a little more daring and fun, go get a hotel, dress up, put a wig on, spin on a dance pole...whatever it takes.Keep the sex and love alive and I have to believe that the cheating will in more cases than not,  never be an issue.

they have no respect for their woman, or if they're  married, their wife. They have no respect for God and the 10 commandments. They have no respect for the institution of marriage. They are poor role models for their children. No woman should ever marry a man like that. Look at a man's father, before you marry the man; and that'll tell you how your man is going to turn out. And look at what his brothers are doing too.

Cheating by either sex is discusting behavior. Whats really funny here is that a woman asks about lying to someones face. News flash !!!!!! We learned that discusting behavior from you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sleep around and I hope you get something that makes your private parts rot and fall off !!!!!!!!!! In my book someone who cheats is a hundred notches below a child molester on the sucking scale. This is the behavior of worthless people !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Men (and women) do this because they can often do so with no consequence.  What drives a person to that behavior can be any number of things (and I don't have time to elaborate now, but you can probably think of some reasons yourself). 

What consequence, if any,  do you think would eliminate cheating and lying?   I doubt "getting even" by "doing it, too" would stop anyone.

ALSO, neither a man NOR a woman needs to LOVE someone to have sex with him/her/them.  Sex is physical; the emotional enhances it, but it's mostly physical.  I remember seeing a guy in the gym when I was in college.  He was wearing gym shorts, sox and sneakers (no shirt).  OMG! He absolutely took my breath away.  We met several months later and had a physical relationship off and on for years, but never could connect emotionally. 

just coz one woman did this to you does not mean all women are alike and you cannot judge one situation and come to this conclusion...this was your dilemma,your story...not all women lie and are unfaithful...men and women lie..it is a fact...I feel sorry for you since you seem to never have turned the page to this chapter in your life...forgive,so your heart and soul can be at peace...my advice to you:-)))if I had been betrayed(and I have)by so called friends this does not mean any new friends I will make in the future are also going to betray me or lie to me...this world has good and bad intentions-inclined people...there is nothing we can do to change someone's personality but pray to God to change what is in their hearts first...if they truly what to change...this woman you married happened to be a lying chick.....not all women lie to their men and are deceitful..THANKS GOD otherwise you will not find faithful couples all around the world...There are people who fear GOD enough to not be unfaithful to their husbands...Men too betray...celebrities,sport men,musicians etc...politicians are the worse if you ask me...a whole country depend on them and when you find out they been sleeping right and left with many women who know they are married and are in this position=IT SUCKS!!!!!

and bluesman195...when I said "lying to their face"it  is in reference to when a woman asks her husband(not her boyfriend or some guy she is just dating,a one night stand  etc...)while he is looking at her in the eyes...she already knows the answer but just asking to see of he is going to be honest with her...AND STILL HE LIES TO HER,denying the fact that he is cheating on his wife

Because they have low morals, weak character, and are of low intelligent. I don't care if he is the President of the USA, if he runs around on his wife, he is dumb as mud!

Or has the IQ of a carrot!

Notice that in my answer, I said some people, not all people.

The sad fact is that some people see no more in physically loving another than the excitement of the time it takes them to do so. They have no real feeling for the person after they are out of their sight and no respect for how the other feels about them. I have heard so many sides of a couple talk badly about the other when they were out of range of hearing. It is pathetic that people can do things like that. Feelings must be present and expressed to support a real relationship.  I am the type of person that if my spouse became unable to physically show affection, I would use a hand held device if I was in deep need. I would consider remarrying if he died, but as long as he was nice, kind and loving to me, I would not go elsewhere.