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That's just it your looking. Talking from a guys perspective you need to get a life and not care about guys. Care about your self first and then the guys will come flocking. However, if you use sexual promiscuity then it will be easier but the quality of guys will not be great. I recommend going with getting a great life and meeting guys that way. Join a salsa club, go to the library.

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Your question sounds pretty straightforward and intelligent....I can hear that you are comfortable with yourself with just your self description.....that's more than half the battle....it's not always so easy to find your mate....generally speaking, in all my many years of dating, marrying, falling in love, etc......I seemed to have found the "best of the best" when least expecting it...so go for whatever interests you in life, be it family, friends, a hobby, club scene, whatever really....there is always someone for everyone...don't be in too big of a hurry nor do not sell yourself short ever and do not setlle for second best....it's not such a bad thing to be alone and comfortable in your own skin....we don't really need another person to make us whole...you can achieve that on your own...good luck to you!..(: