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    when u have no one to turn to and u cant see ahead ,,what do u do then??do u give up??

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    itsmee

    How are u doing? I know u wrote this a long time ago but things do change ... or they don't. itsmee

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    never give up

    If you give up your life will just continue the same as it is now.Take up a new interest.Tai-chi for instance or some similar activity involving other people.


    It's terrible to feel alone.But are you really alone? If you look for help you can usually find it.Some suggestions have been made here & they sound like good ideas for you.


    Most importantly, Act now,do something,don't just sit around worrying about it.

    Change what you are doing. And take up a hobby where there are a lot of people involved. It will change your mindset and help you to think clearly.

    Turn to GOD, he is always with you and loves you.

    Believe in yourself, find the strength to pick yourself up. You will have problems and troubles to overcome. Face the ups and downs of life with challenges and joys.


    God Bless You!

    Spaceghost

    Very GOOD answer my friend.
    IamPamela313

    Thanks, Ghost!

    The key here is time. Move on to something different. Time will change all that eyou think. Believe me never  ever give up. You well always look back in life.

    There is always someone even if you have to go to the emergency room of a hospital.  You are loved.

    Hey you have to pull yourselve together now we have all been in your shoes and you can get through this you have to be strong and as Pamela said belive in your self and you know the old saying PMA possitive mental attatude keep being positive this will help and preyer and I will to for you God Bless you and good luck Also there is a Light at the end

    I would listen to the song by Simon and Garfunkel:  Bridge Over Troubled Water. 


    Your God (whoever He may be to you) will guide your through.


    If that song is too slow for you, try Celine Dion's "That's the Way It Is,".....don't give up on your faith.

    Tommyh

    Yeah,Celine.

    i keep looking at your question jg.im wondering if youre suffering from depression?could be worth a chat with your doctor if so.not sure where you are,in the uk we have an organisation called the samaritans,they help people in a state of despair.if youre not in the uk  have a look in your phone directory to see if you have something like that.There are people out there that do care.im sending you a hug(((( ))))),take care x

    Giving up changes nothing. If there's no one to turn to, well, it's just you. Evaluate your situation and ask yourself what has to be done to improve your life. Take a small step to improve it, than take another, and another. Most importantly,prayer goes a long way.

    When I asked God that question…the answer I got was ‘You need do nothing’. That answer stopped me cold and I soon understood the situation completely. Be kind to yourself because you have a new adventure every day and that can be a lot of fun. God seeks for all children to be happy. 

    when you get to the end of your rope tie a not in it and hang on, christ will pull you in!

    One day at a time. Sometimes u have to scream for someone to listen. You are loved, no doubt. Some good answers, be good to your self. Go to the er. Someone cares. Tell them how you really feel, they can help you. God is always there. I scream at him sometimes. He loves me anyways. Don't give up no matter what.

    itsmee

    kayosea ~ Thank you for your response. I was so down when I wrote it. So so do down. I believe I was born with Depression and I know every trick in the book to keep it from getting me down. One thing that bothers me at times is Chronic Pain. I used to dance away Depression or run or later walk. Now, if I do too much exercise I hurt my neck.
    My injury happened from a Shiatsu machine. Sounds weird. Huh? I don't scream ... I just kind of quiet way down. I'm a little better today. I've been playing on the site. It helps.
    Stay around. I'll be looking for you. Hugs.
    itsmee

    Is your Avatar a painting or a design on cloth? Can't tell. I'll try to get one of my paintings on here.

    When I feel like you've described, I generally break down and have a sob-fest.  This may go on for days or weeks.  Someone could greet me at church with a simple "How are you?" and the lump jumps to my throat and tears spring from my eyes.  I'm that distraught and exhausted.

    Saying that, I accompany that misery with near constant prayer for relief and direction from God.  Were I to read my Bible during those times, comfort is there.  Slowly, oh so slowly, my hurt and grief diminish as I turn myself to a little chore or take more interest in the dog and cat. A hobby (making earrings) sits on a table that never needs be cleared, and akaQA takes alot of my time. 

    Mostly, it is time that heals my wounds, and a concerted effort to rise from the ashes.  Then one day, I notice that I haven't cried for three days, and I know I'm on the mend....until the next time. 


    You are never alone.  You may be lonely, but you are never alone.  Take time for your grief, but do not let it take YOUR time.  Also, see a doctor or counselor....your feelings may be from your chemistry and a mood-elevator may be prescribed.  Use it as directed.

    igauntiette: I know exactly how u feel. Do u hear me? 

    Imlook forward to get to know you. It is a very large painting. lol. couldnt find a profile pic. Sorry about your pain and depression. I suffer from both . Sucks some days. I do alot of swimming in warm water. Its so wonderful. Would love to see one of your paintings.

    itsmee

    Just stopped by to say “Hi” How are you? I’m ok, I guess.


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