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    what do i do if have a boyfriend who hardly talks to me

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    +4  Views: 3602 Answers: 25 Posted: 13 years ago
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      At first I was going to suggest that you dump him, until I read your byline about him being "smart,sexy and tall"

      Just assume that he's the quiet type.
      13 years ago. Rating: 8
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        country bumpkin

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        He has a hairy chest too.
        commented 8 years ago
        digger

        You are soooo...70's.
        commented 8 years ago
        Ducky

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        don don knows what is important. "Boyfriend" doesn't need to talk.....he can just parade around the house. Oooo-whee!!!
        commented 8 years ago
        Then how do you know he's your boyfriend? I would think he would want to get to know you, maybe just shy, some guys need to be encouraged.
        13 years ago. Rating: 7
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          Had one of these once. He was actually more comfortable talking to other guys than me. Found out what he really liked to talk about and then couldn't shut him up.
          13 years ago. Rating: 7
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            hector5559

            i bet it was about cars ,or motor bikes,
            commented 13 years ago
            ask him questions about himself. Most people like to talk about themselves. When you do hear him talking to somebody else, or you,then notice the subject that he loves to talk about.
            As time goes along, he'll feel more confident, adn talk to you more.
            13 years ago. Rating: 6
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              Does he do anything else besides not talking?  If he does housework and remains quiet, keep him.  If he brings lots of goodies home, keep him.  If he makes good money and shares it with you, keep him.  If he makes great love to you, definitely keep him.  Otherwise, you know what to do.

              13 years ago. Rating: 6
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                hector5559

                if hes like the above i would not mind him,
                commented 13 years ago

                You just say - Next!

                13 years ago. Rating: 6
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                  Maybe he is just shy. Find out what his passions are and try to learn a bit about them so you can get him talking about what he likes. I also found through past experiences that allowing him to be quiet and not taking it nervously will let him relax. Start asking a few more questions to get him out of his quiet shyness but don't become a nervous chatter box.
                  13 years ago. Rating: 6
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                    6dogs4us is right. Find out what he is interested in, and talk to him about those subjects.
                    13 years ago. Rating: 6
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                      don don, try to be yourself, not all for him. Guys run away if girls chase after.
                      13 years ago. Rating: 5
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                        Is that his personality or is it only around you?
                        13 years ago. Rating: 5
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                          Enjoy not being interrupted?
                          13 years ago. Rating: 5
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                            What makes him your "boyfriend"? Is this mutual? So, talk with him and ask. If you don't like the answer well, you know where the door is.  You love  him? What possibly for?

                            13 years ago. Rating: 4
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                              Tickle him and he will respond.

                              13 years ago. Rating: 4
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                                If he hardly talks to you tellhim that you are moving on and he needs to interact more if you want me back
                                13 years ago. Rating: 4
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                                  your lucky, he's not going to say anything that worth hearing anyway.
                                  13 years ago. Rating: 4
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                                    shut up and maybe he'll get a chance!!!!!!!lol, just kidding
                                    13 years ago. Rating: 4
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                                      I don't know either.
                                      13 years ago. Rating: 3
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                                        ditch him!

                                        13 years ago. Rating: 3
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                                          He's not a boy friend and you are apparently a convience.

                                          13 years ago. Rating: 3
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                                            Make sure that you understand him before you commit. I thought that mine was just shy and quiet. Turns out he has Asperger's.It is a daily struggle to communicate with him.He also passed it to our son. I constantly work with my son on communication, he's better than his Dad but still struggles. Just be sure!
                                            13 years ago. Rating: 3
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                                              WELL here some ideas if you have a phone ? TEXT HIM and tack a pictur of ur self and send it to him and then call him it works
                                              13 years ago. Rating: 3
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                                                Dump the bum better blokes out there sweetie pie
                                                13 years ago. Rating: 3
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                                                  YOU SIT HIM DOWN AND COMMUNICATE YOUR CONCERN....AGREE TO DISAGREE...REASON, COMPROMISE AND MAKE HIM BELIEVE, COMMUNICATION IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT.
                                                  13 years ago. Rating: 2
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                                                    If you have met any of his friends, male or female, ask if he is shy. Maybe he is timid with you on a personal one on one but like an introvert and when in a group is an extrovert. Maybe he likes to you carry the conversation. Age is also a factor.
                                                    13 years ago. Rating: 2
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                                                      Take a long look at yourself, maybe that is the reason.
                                                      13 years ago. Rating: 1
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                                                        witchway

                                                        Really? This is your answer?
                                                        commented 13 years ago


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