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    Have you ever been let down by a friend?

    During a very hard time I really found out who my real friends were. Some were not the one's I thought the most of but they surprised me

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    +4  Views: 2937 Answers: 12 Posted: 13 years ago
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      Yes, I have loaned money to friends and learned that lesson, not to lend friends money. Also I have lost friends just over time and moving to different states, lost friends when I changed jobs, there are many ways to loose friends and it bites to loose them.

      But like Dwayne and others have said, the ones you lost weren't really true friends. We only have a few of those it we're lucky.
      13 years ago. Rating: 5
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        yes. when i had my stroke my so called friends dropped me like a hot potato
        13 years ago. Rating: 5
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          ole hipster

          That sucks a big one carmaxable...goodness knows that's when you really need friends....they showed their true colors and you're probably better off not having friends like that...after all, who likes enemies..I hope you are doing well thes days...take care of yourself!
          commented 13 years ago

          WHEN I WAS YOUNG I MADE A REMARK TO MY DAD ABOUT HOW MANY FRIENDS I HAD.HE REPLYED IF YOU HAVE A HANDFULL OF FRIENDS IN A LIFE TIME YOU ARE LUCKY HE WAS RIGHT THERE IS A BIG DIFF.IN BUDDIES PALS CHUMS. AND FRIENDS. THE ONE THING IS CERTAIN PEOPLE DISAPOINT YOU THATS JUST WHAT THEY DO.

          13 years ago. Rating: 5
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            My "best friend" borrowed $7500 from us and now we never hear from her. No money either that she "promised" to pay back.

            13 years ago. Rating: 5
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              PEOPLELOVER

              First rule of friend ship "Never lend money you are not prepared to lose" Same goes for family.

              commented 13 years ago
              ole hipster

              Amen to that one Peoplelover!
              commented 13 years ago
              leosmaml

              ive been done like that Lupe!!!my advice to you is ,learn from it.id never lend anyone money again.funny how short peoples memories can be...
              commented 13 years ago

              I guess I never had a good friend, my family and any of what I thought were friends always have let me down and treated me badly guess that's why I am more of a loner now......

              13 years ago. Rating: 4
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                Spaceghost

                I hope you consider me a friend Darci.

                commented 13 years ago
                ole hipster

                You're a loner too....I've just that club years ago...you can talk to me Darci (:
                commented 13 years ago
                Darci13

                Ole hipster I think you make too many rash assumptions about others but I for one am glad Spaceghost is my friend. I am lucky to have him for a friend.
                commented 13 years ago

                There are different grades of friends. Someone you may know or someone you work with and your life long friends. You can expect the first two types to let you down and occassionally the latter. The thing to ask yourself are you a good enough friend to forgive your friends for letting you down. If the answer is yes. Then they are your true friends. If it's no. Then...............

                13 years ago. Rating: 4
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                  yes I have, it hurts, they're not supposed to do that...

                  13 years ago. Rating: 4
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                    ole hipster


                    sorry clarity...I accidentally voted you down after realizing that I had voted you up...I'll make it up to you...again..I'm so sorry!
                    commented 13 years ago
                    ole hipster

                    Hey, I found a question of yours, voted that up to make up for the down....wish there was a way to eliminated this....some early dementia in my case! (:
                    commented 13 years ago
                    yes while hicking we come upon a cliff my friend let my down first then i threw him back up the rope... alright it was a dumb made up story.. except for the part about hicking..
                    13 years ago. Rating: 3
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                      If friends are people you do things for and expect no return then I have many.

                      If friends are people who do things for me and expect no return then I have a few.

                      But, not really let down, only disappointed.
                      13 years ago. Rating: 3
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                        A good friend does not judge you. A good friend will tell you the truth even if it my hurt. A good friend will be with you till the end. I hope I can live up to these things for my friends

                        13 years ago. Rating: 3
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                          Golly yes, who hasn't been let down by a friend at some point in their lives...can think of a few...won't get into the particular details...some I still think about and some I don't...life trudges on!
                          13 years ago. Rating: 3
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                            friendindeed

                            ole hipster....did you make a mistake and unvote me? easy done
                            commented 13 years ago

                            No I have never been let down by a friend, acqaintences yes, people I worked with yes but friends never. What was all the other blathering about this question, so many go off on a tangent from what is asked. Surprised our Holyer than thou people didn`t hop in with the J word being a true friend that never lets you down.

                            13 years ago. Rating: 2
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