ejane

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do you think being in a relationship with a guy 4 years older is bad?

Do youthink being in a relationship with a guy that's 4 years older than you is bad?

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Colleen

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Depends on how old you are. If you are 16 or younger, yes a boy/guy 4 years older than you is too old for you.

13 years ago. Rating: 3
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Colleen

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I see you picked the best answer based on what you wanted to hear. Just think about what I told Vinny. I hope you're of age or your boyfriend could find himself in jail and you don't even have to be the one pressing charges. I can only surmise you asked this question because people in your life are telling you this guy is too old for you. How about you be HONEST with the ages involved.

13 years ago. Rating: 2
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ejane

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okay well i guess we're in a friendship then

13 years ago. Rating: 1
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daren1

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no definatly not as long as your not related.

13 years ago. Rating: 0
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Chiangmai

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Being in a relationship with a guy at any age is great. Better than being without one.

If you're being cautious, draw a line at MY age.

13 years ago. Rating: 0
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Colleen

What if she's 10 or 12?

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Chiangmai

Your honor, she looks much older? Just kidding.

ejane, you must not pay any attention to me.

commented 13 years ago

ejane

if this was or is your daughter or sister I know you wouldn't see it like you do.

commented 13 years ago

Vinny

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Only if he is 21-25..

13 years ago. Rating: 0
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Colleen

In some states, if he is 18, he can be charged with a sex crime if he has intercourse with a 16 year old.

commented 13 years ago

Vinny

I don't mind being wrong! I learn rights from wrongs!! :)

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ejane

hes not hes younger then that

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Colleen

Besides, you're not the one going to jail if you are wrong, LOL!

commented 13 years ago

Colleen

Then that makes you really young. Too young to be playing house with a boy. Do your parents know what you're up to?

commented 13 years ago

Vinny

Good gad girl, how old are you???

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ejane

Karma: 135

sorry ,ive heard that being freinds is considered being in a relatioship thats why i said in a relationship with someone

13 years ago. Rating: 0
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Colleen

Well, you heard wrong. A friendship is a friendship. Tell your little friends they are wrong too.

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ejane

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right now we're still only freinds .I didnt say what kind of a relationship we were in

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Colleen

Well little one, let me explain what "being in a relationship" means. It means you have take your friendship to the next level and are now exclusive to each other and are dating or having relations. Understand what you say, before you say it.

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Chiangmai

Yes, read the fine print.

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ejane

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your right

13 years ago. Rating: 0
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ejane

Colleen, ejane's mom here. The boy she was talking about she has crushed on for at least 5-6 years. Thank you so much for talking to her. We didn't know about her asking strangers for advise. WE have told her that he is to oldand she thinks we r wrong.13 going on 20.THank you again ejanes mom.

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