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    do you think being in a relationship with a guy 4 years older is bad?

    Do youthink being in a relationship with a guy that's 4 years older than you is bad?

    0  Views: 890 Answers: 9 Posted: 13 years ago

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    Depends on how old you are. If you are 16 or younger, yes a boy/guy 4 years older than you is too old for you.

    I see you picked the best answer based on what you wanted to hear. Just think about what I told Vinny. I hope you're of age or your boyfriend could find himself in jail and you don't even have to be the one pressing charges. I can only surmise you asked this question because people in your life are telling you this guy is too old for you. How about you be HONEST with the ages involved.

    okay well i guess we're in a friendship then

    no definatly not as long as your not related.

    Being in a relationship with a guy at any age is great.  Better than being without one.


    If you're being cautious, draw a line at MY age.


     

    Colleen

    Moderator
    What if she's 10 or 12?
    Chiangmai

    Your honor, she looks much older? Just kidding.

    ejane, you must not pay any attention to me.
    ejane

    if this was or is your daughter or sister I know you wouldn't see it like you do.

    Only if he is 21-25..

    Colleen

    Moderator
    In some states, if he is 18, he can be charged with a sex crime if he has intercourse with a 16 year old.
    Vinny

    I don't mind being wrong! I learn rights from wrongs!! :)
    ejane

    hes not hes younger then that
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Besides, you're not the one going to jail if you are wrong, LOL!
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Then that makes you really young. Too young to be playing house with a boy. Do your parents know what you're up to?
    Vinny

    Good gad girl, how old are you???

    sorry ,ive heard that being freinds is considered being in a relatioship thats why i said in a relationship with someone

    Colleen

    Moderator
    Well, you heard wrong. A friendship is a friendship. Tell your little friends they are wrong too.

    right now we're still only freinds .I didnt say what kind of a relationship we were in

    Colleen

    Moderator
    Well little one, let me explain what "being in a relationship" means. It means you have take your friendship to the next level and are now exclusive to each other and are dating or having relations. Understand what you say, before you say it.
    Chiangmai

    Yes, read the fine print.

    your right

    ejane

    Colleen, ejane's mom here. The boy she was talking about she has crushed on for at least 5-6 years. Thank you so much for talking to her. We didn't know about her asking strangers for advise. WE have told her that he is to oldand she thinks we r wrong.13 going on 20.THank you again ejanes mom.


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