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    What if I'm not happy and the person i'm with loves me but the feeling isn't mutual? I've been with the person for 3 years and something is missing- my happiness. I'm not happy sexually and when I try explaining he still doesn't make me happy. I've tried showing tutorial videos and all. he still doesnt get it. I've never really been a fan of sex and he isnt good at oral. I'm not used to this at all and its messin with our relationship because I cant love him like he needs to be loved.

    0  Views: 551 Answers: 5 Posted: 13 years ago

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    Time to pack the suitcase, load up the UHaul and say "adios". Drive off into the sunset until you find someone that makes you happy.

    Time to walk away,you have give it your best shot for 3 yrs,so it seems nothing is going to change.Don't leave it any longer like i did(20yrs)because before you know it10 yrs will have past and your still as is(maybe worse).I can't guarantee that you will find happiness once you are out of this relationship,but you will have more inner peace.

    We know he's not giving you the sexual satisfaction you feel you deserve.  If it takes two to tango, my question to you is "What have you done for him sexually to make you feel entitled to more satisfaction?"  If you want to fix the situation, you may want to consider fixing yourself as well.  Going to another man may not necessarily the solution.

    well honey he is just not the right guy for  you,so you need to move on or learn to live with the way things are......i don't what your age is but that sometimes has a afect on what you are willing to live.....i my opinion life is too short not to be happy.......good luck...

    Sounds like it is time to move on.



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