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I find your last question insulting to older men, "do the girls get younger as the men get older?"

Your tutor obviously has not yet taught you the difference between 99.99999% of men and a tiny percentage of weirdos irrespective of age.

Good luck with your studies and feel free to ask you tutor for comments on my comments because the last thing the world needs is more mixed up academics.

Oh! and vulgur is vulgAr. Do not want you to lose marks for spelling. But then I left school aged 14 after starting at 6 years of age. You can have a hay day with that one.

Commented 13 years ago

rodney carsner

as we get older no one wants to interact with older men as per young women alot of them think that they are perverse for eaven looking at them yet as you get older you are left out of alot of things you were use to when you were younger and things you did it,s hard to be young when yer old or gettig old you till just want to fit in somewhere lookin at porn is just a small way to fill avoid of what you cant get(or if you try you get shot down alot)its i guess a little safer way to dream without getting in trouble by touching or trying to...hmmm..!I guess..there are some who can fit in and make it work for them no matter how old

Commented 13 years ago

Chiangmai

Rodney, are we allowed to drool?

Commented 13 years ago

bi?

First off, I am a woman. Second, I am 37. Third, I consider myself a normal american woman. I am a wife and mother of 4 children. Average income, job and life. That said, I don't only consider men that are my age and older to be attractive. Sometimes I will see a much younger guy and think damn he's hot!!
I think that just because we get older doesn't mean that what we found attractive, that image as a teen, that we all had in our head as hormone raging teenage heads, that image really changes.
I think that as we get older, that "image" remains the same. We are just mature enough not to act on it. Most of us anyway!

Commented 13 years ago

bulletman

Just because a man is elderly does'nt mean he's sexually dead.

Commented 13 years ago

bullets got the right idea. And lets face it.....young women and young men are a lot better looking than an older person

Commented 12 years ago

delbertdelbert

I am a sixty one year old male, and I am attracted to younger women. Additionally, I like women my age and older. Older women are quite lovely.

I do not enjoy porn, yet I have viewed a site or two, and never of underage females.

I have never dated a much younger woman, beginning from the age of consent, but I would, if she were mature. I believe that feelings have little or nothing to do with age; the stigma derives from religious teachings and socialized fears.

That said, I respect The Law, and shun criminality of any kind.

Referring to another person as perverse or using dark socialized terms toward him, or her, because the individual has different sexual beliefs/practices, even without illegalities, is ludicrous, and narrow-minded.

From childhood, and in many ways, we are taught to be hypocrites. If a behavior is legal, then how does it become perverse, wrong, or something ugly?

Perhaps, the darkest place (thus the answer) lies (deeply) within the minds of the thinkers.

Regarding morality, why must every individual behave in accordance to one standard of morality? Unless one has signed a "morals clause," i.e. as a part of employment, or else, he or she has no human duty to act according to any ethical principles, other than those of his or her own.

Again, as long as no illegalities occur, people should be permitted to live their lives as they choose.

The next time "you" point the infamous finger, or refer to someone else as "suspicious," or "perverted," perhaps you should consider counseling.

For, the "suspicious" person (just) may be "YOU?"
-My Take-

Commented 11 years ago

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ed shank

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Best answer!

How would you know that? Men, I know this is not the norm, but I never got into porn. It desensitizes what the intimate part of a relationship is. Never enjoyed titty bars either. Don't get me wrong, I looove women. To see them degraded in porn, pisses me off. I'd rather see a woman in some sexy garb, this leaves something to the imagination. Looking at a woman's uterous is a gyno's job.

13 years ago. Rating: 14
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Tommyh

I'm with you Ed.

commented 13 years ago

itsmee

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17 is a child. It's perverse according to the law.

13 years ago. Rating: 14
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Okay then what about 18-22 year olds...than is it normal or perverse?

commented 13 years ago

carmaxable

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wishing for younger days

13 years ago. Rating: 11
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Chiangmai

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3 Stages of a Male Sex life

There are very little sexual disorders with most men here, bird88, just stages. Keep it simple. You'll get there some day.

Stage #1 Ages 25-40 >>>>>> Tri Weekly

Stage #2 Ages 40-60 >>>>>> Try Weekly

Stage #3 Ages 60-75 >>>>>> Try Weakly

13 years ago. Rating: 10
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Jenn

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"girls" from 18-22 are adults. And weman are beautiful. I think it is normal.

Not ot mention it is npt just porn. A female models carreer is over at 24... Young is sexy.

13 years ago. Rating: 10
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Jenn

There are exceptions. I am referring to average models. Not models that are known world wide. There are millions of models.. But only a handful that survive the age cut.

commented 13 years ago

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Maybe you should have been honest from the start and let everyone know you were using the forum to do your homework on. They are use to perverts coming here too so don't be so shocked at some of the answers you're getting. You would have gotten different answers had you let people know what you were up to.

13 years ago. Rating: 8
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You are absolutely right and I do know that there are some perverst people who get on here just to be annoying, However I am new on here and I will make sure to make all questions clear as to why I am asking them! I am a Student working on some case studies in Human Sexuality and the opinions of other's help me to remain open minded and non biast when deciding whether these Men are normal or not. I am a Psychology Major. Thanks to all those who give me opinions...:)

commented 13 years ago

woofer49

In defense of bird 88, I think it is a perfectly good question to ask and as long as the responses fall in the line of informative and not titillating, than maybe some of the sexual hangups this society has gone through, could be lessened rather than repressed. Being 63 yo, having grown up with the sexual revolution, I feel that openness and frank discussion about these issues benefits all. Sure there are perverts out there, but this site isn't a draw to them because a school aged kid would like to have some information on motivation and agendas of some individuals proclivities, sexually, is a big turn on for them. After all Kinsey wrote a report in the 1950's trying to find out answers about sexual issues in the fifties, 50 yrs ago. Before that, it was talked about in hushed tones and considered dirty, a legacy that apparently exists to this very day. You don't have to go far to find out the internet is full of pornography, why on earth would a question about it shock you? To develop healthy attitudes about our common sexual practices one needs information on what is considered abnormal and what is normal, rather than learning it from friends, Playboy and nervous parents.

commented 12 years ago

Woofer, please note, this question was a year ago and there was more going on than just this question. There were other questions asked by Bird that were questionable. You might want to check out the unanswered questions.

commented 12 years ago

bulletman

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Normal!=== 18-22

13 years ago. Rating: 8
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Curiosity killed the cat.

As a man I don`t understand your phobia about older men and younger girls. Are you cranky that you are not gettimg the attenton?

Change the equation to a 57 year old woman looking at photos of young good looking, built like a brick toilet life savers.

Here on the beach they have "sand buckets" for the women to empty their eye balls into before leaving, if they didn`t we would be out of sand.

What was it Mum said? Oh yes, sauce for the goose sauce for the gander.

13 years ago. Rating: 8
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First off No I am not cranky, I get all the attention I need sexually. Thanks for your concern. However I am studying Human Sexuality as part of my psychology degree and the subject happens to be "Men" in general. I wanted to ask these questions to get some opinions on some case studies we are doing for this class.

commented 13 years ago

Gee sorry bird88, my error if I had noticed your name I never would have said "curiosity killed the cat" that must have really frightened you.

Back to your question you are fairly new to this site, and I welcome you, however we get a lot of questions from weidos looking for "shock affect".
We also get kids wanting their home work done for them.
All this should assist you as to why some answer can be tongue in cheek. In your case had you said " I am a 80 year old psychology

commented 13 years ago

If there are two similar comments by me directed a to bird 88 I had a glitch.

Bird88 sorry I frightened you with my "cat" bit as a bird you had good reason to worry.

Re your comments to me.
We get a lot of weirdo questions plus kids doing homework.

Had you said "I am a 19 year old student studying psychology at Ratbag University and currently we are studying male sexuality as part of the course" The responses to you question would have been much different.

Even as a student of psychology I am sure you can now understand that.

I stand by my comments as far as why single out men and the fact that women are as likely to like looking at young men.

You were forth coming about your sexual fulfilment and, as a 79 year old man who has no degrees except a honours from the school of life and the school of hard knocks,it is unwise to share your accomplishments of this type with complete strangers.

That is covered in later lessons on psychology.

Again sorry about the "cat" bit

commented 13 years ago

Chiangmai

Ratbag or Rutgers?

commented 13 years ago

Ratbag was just a name I made up for a fictitious University Cheangmai. Cultural gap?

commented 13 years ago

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Why are you asking so many sexually related questions? We have little kids on this site.

13 years ago. Rating: 7
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Excuse me, I did not ask anything vulgur, but at the present time, I am studying human sexuality as part of my psychology degree and I needed opinions on some case studies. I have also seen much worse on this site. So if it offends you than I am sorry you feel that way. Have a wonderful day.

commented 13 years ago

More like a reminder that there are kids here. I didn't know where you were going with this and you certainly didn't share that you were doing homework here. You were actually beginning to sound a little perverted yourself with all the questions. As you say, you've seen worse here, so I try to stay ahead of the ones who do turn vulgar. You have a nice day too.

commented 13 years ago

Thank you for your opinion, I will keep all questions as clean as possible and I will not be vulgur about anything I ask for opinions on, and yeah I should have made it clear that I was a student doing case studies for Human Sexuality rather than sounding Perverse myself.

commented 13 years ago

Yvonne57

Haven't heard from bird88 in a while - guess he wasn't a student after all. By the way, I saw on TV that Bird88 is a game or cartoon character.

commented 13 years ago

Yvonne, is he a guy ? I thought he was a girl. So,maybe he's not really a student?

commented 12 years ago

Ann

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Did you know that men have 20 % more blood than women? It is normal for some older men to look at pornagraphy with younger girls in it. Theire blood rushes to theire head but many times nothing happens down below. It is just wishful thinking and most likely harmless.

13 years ago. Rating: 7
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eggplant

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That's the only way they can get a kick start...

13 years ago. Rating: 7
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Tommyh

SSHH! (Tell 'em you are a student working on studies in human sexuality).

commented 13 years ago

Headless Man

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I like to look at young people. Makes me think of how I wasted my youth and hoping that I can share my wisdom with them so they might not wast theirs. Get God in your life wile young.

13 years ago. Rating: 6
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FreedomFighter

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Many a man's sexual peak is during those young ages. What the elderly men are doing is attempting to relive those moments. As long as it remains as a day dream, there is no harm.

13 years ago. Rating: 6
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Yvonne57

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Bird88 I don't think you are actually a student. Why didn't you fill out Basic Information when you signed on this site?

13 years ago. Rating: 5
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cucumber

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It is my opinion that your question opens a can of worms,The study of Human Sexuality and Disorders is very complex and diverse, elderly gentleman drooling over young girls may appeal to some members of our population , for reasons only the thought police can answer,theories abound regarding the attitudes of society and its indiscretions,perhaps some people have become a product of o their environment ?

13 years ago. Rating: 3
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Deathboy

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First of all 16-18 is perv as the girl is not full aged making it just wrong but when the women is 18 then its alowed as most men don't have a gf or wife and got nothing to do so they watch porn and masturbate.

13 years ago. Rating: 3
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Deathboy

umbriel in uk its 18 16 is perv

commented 13 years ago

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Men are men, and they will look at girls untill the day they are taken to the funeral home in a hearse.

Dirty old men like to have fun too.

12 years ago. Rating: 2
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Ed1530

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They had better not be looking at girls who are 17 because that is not legal an if they are then yes it is perverse

13 years ago. Rating: 2
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Lupe

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Nostalga.....

13 years ago. Rating: 2
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eloninete

it was so funny to read your comments,

commented 13 years ago

Heavy Doc

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Umbriel,

Who the bloody hell told you the age of consent in Kansas was 13? Are you out of your lime pickin' frickin' mind?

Are you smokin' Turkish hashish? Doin' Deutsche dope? 'Er what?

Dude . . . or Dudette . . . which the sam-hell ever ye be matey, there not be a state in this here cuntry (Aye! Just for ye spellin' fanatics (Aye. Like me.) I spelled country wrong on purpose. Er, porpoise.) No place anawhare here in Americae has consent laws younger than 16 now. Ney even Kentucky, Tennessee, ner Hillbilly old Arkansas.

Now there ye be, ye fowel weather teen aged Brits! Don't be puttin yer potty mouth and pee-pee brain in places over here whare ye kno nuthin' a-boot!! And no me buck-o!! We don't got no Dan'l Boone n'mor, nor d'we have Davy Crokett, Wild Bill Hickcox, ner Buffla' Bill Cody. And them Red Apaches be done fer, as well as the planes Souixs, the Cherokee, Choctaw Chipowa, Ojibway, Iriquois Nation, and all those wild Red Men!! And their women be PARTY DOLLS. I KNOW! HAD ME A COUPLE OF'EM IN THE REAL ARMY! Aye and I be from the right glorious state of TEXAS too ya' false little Brit shit! And I bet ye wouldn't e'en know yer own fine lady, Mrs. Margie. What a fine lass, and full o'class that one be!! STOOD BY THE QUEEN FIERCE like and my own fine Ronny Boy Reagan.

So wise up! Ya silly Brit teen! Stop rockin' yer own boat a'fore ye sink the bloody Ilses cause ye done went and fell fer then fell in luve with those towel head bastards yer lettin' run over yoo, and yoo ain't even got no ex-cuse! Yer Queen, God love her, AIN'T no silly assed Kuranist. Neither be that joker ya got fer PM now. But too many of ya Brits be rollin' over and playin' dead fer the hash smokin', towel headed, camel jockey, rummies. Stand like Churchhill did and take back England from those stink bombs. Aye! I agree! We here need t'do the same.

Ta-ta fer now!!!

I hope you take 99% of this as the funny I mean it to be....

G'night Umbriel,

Heavy DOC

13 years ago. Rating: 2
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