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    Why do elderly men like to look at pornorgraphy of Young girls ages 17 to 22? Is it normal or Perverse?

    +3  Views: 5085 Answers: 22 Posted: 13 years ago
    bird88

    Okay First off I want to clear some things up for everyone reading my questions, I am a student and I am studying Human Sexuality and Disorders at the present time as part of my Psycology degree, therefore I thought it would be a great ideal to get opinions on some case studies I am doing at the present time regarding sexuality of the Male and Disorders. I hope all of you will be open minded when giving me opinions and I want to say THANK YOU to all those who help me by leaving their opinion. I personally think that as adults we all have the right to whether we choose to watch porn or not, but I do believe an elderly male who is interested in such young girls at his age does indicate a warning sign. Do they get younger as he gets older? any opinions on this?
    PEOPLELOVER

    I find your last question insulting to older men, "do the girls get younger as the men get older?"

    Your tutor obviously has not yet taught you the difference between 99.99999% of men and a tiny percentage of weirdos irrespective of age.

    Good luck with your studies and feel free to ask you tutor for comments on my comments because the last thing the world needs is more mixed up academics.

    Oh! and vulgur is vulgAr. Do not want you to lose marks for spelling. But then I left school aged 14 after starting at 6 years of age. You can have a hay day with that one.
    rodney carsner

    as we get older no one wants to interact with older men as per young women alot of them think that they are perverse for eaven looking at them yet as you get older you are left out of alot of things you were use to when you were younger and things you did it,s hard to be young when yer old or gettig old you till just want to fit in somewhere lookin at porn is just a small way to fill avoid of what you cant get(or if you try you get shot down alot)its i guess a little safer way to dream without getting in trouble by touching or trying to...hmmm..!I guess..there are some who can fit in and make it work for them no matter how old
    Chiangmai

    Rodney, are we allowed to drool?
    bi?

    First off, I am a woman. Second, I am 37. Third, I consider myself a normal american woman. I am a wife and mother of 4 children. Average income, job and life. That said, I don't only consider men that are my age and older to be attractive. Sometimes I will see a much younger guy and think damn he's hot!!
    I think that just because we get older doesn't mean that what we found attractive, that image as a teen, that we all had in our head as hormone raging teenage heads, that image really changes.
    I think that as we get older, that "image" remains the same. We are just mature enough not to act on it. Most of us anyway!
    bulletman

    Just because a man is elderly does'nt mean he's sexually dead.
    mycatsmom

    bullets got the right idea. And lets face it.....young women and young men are a lot better looking than an older person
    delbertdelbert

    I am a sixty one year old male, and I am attracted to younger women. Additionally, I like women my age and older. Older women are quite lovely.

    I do not enjoy porn, yet I have viewed a site or two, and never of underage females.

    I have never dated a much younger woman, beginning from the age of consent, but I would, if she were mature. I believe that feelings have little or nothing to do with age; the stigma derives from religious teachings and socialized fears.

    That said, I respect The Law, and shun criminality of any kind.

    Referring to another person as perverse or using dark socialized terms toward him, or her, because the individual has different sexual beliefs/practices, even without illegalities, is ludicrous, and narrow-minded.

    From childhood, and in many ways, we are taught to be hypocrites. If a behavior is legal, then how does it become perverse, wrong, or something ugly?

    Perhaps, the darkest place (thus the answer) lies (deeply) within the minds of the thinkers.

    Regarding morality, why must every individual behave in accordance to one standard of morality? Unless one has signed a "morals clause," i.e. as a part of employment, or else, he or she has no human duty to act according to any ethical principles, other than those of his or her own.

    Again, as long as no illegalities occur, people should be permitted to live their lives as they choose.

    The next time "you" point the infamous finger, or refer to someone else as "suspicious," or "perverted," perhaps you should consider counseling.

    For, the "suspicious" person (just) may be "YOU?"
    -My Take-

    22 Answers

    How would you know that? Men, I know this is not the norm, but I never got into porn. It desensitizes what the intimate part of a relationship is. Never enjoyed titty bars either. Don't get me wrong, I looove women. To see them degraded in porn, pisses me off. I'd rather see a woman in some sexy garb, this leaves something to the imagination. Looking at a woman's uterous is a gyno's job.

    Tommyh

    I'm with you Ed.

    17 is a child. It's perverse according to the law.

    bird88

    Okay then what about 18-22 year olds...than is it normal or perverse?
    wishing for younger days

     


     


    3 Stages of a Male Sex life


     


    There are very little sexual disorders with most men here, bird88, just stages.  Keep it simple.  You'll get there some day.


     


     


    Stage #1 Ages  25-40  >>>>>>  Tri Weekly


     


    Stage #2 Ages  40-60  >>>>>>  Try Weekly


     


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    "girls" from 18-22 are adults. And weman are beautiful. I think it is normal.


    Not ot mention it is npt just porn. A female models carreer is over at 24... Young is sexy.

    Jenn

    There are exceptions. I am referring to average models. Not models that are known world wide. There are millions of models.. But only a handful that survive the age cut.

    Maybe you should have been honest from the start and let everyone know you were using the forum to do your homework on. They are use to perverts coming here too so don't be so shocked at some of the answers you're getting. You would have gotten different answers had you let people know what you were up to.

    bird88

    You are absolutely right and I do know that there are some perverst people who get on here just to be annoying, However I am new on here and I will make sure to make all questions clear as to why I am asking them! I am a Student working on some case studies in Human Sexuality and the opinions of other's help me to remain open minded and non biast when deciding whether these Men are normal or not. I am a Psychology Major. Thanks to all those who give me opinions...:)
    woofer49

    In defense of bird 88, I think it is a perfectly good question to ask and as long as the responses fall in the line of informative and not titillating, than maybe some of the sexual hangups this society has gone through, could be lessened rather than repressed. Being 63 yo, having grown up with the sexual revolution, I feel that openness and frank discussion about these issues benefits all. Sure there are perverts out there, but this site isn't a draw to them because a school aged kid would like to have some information on motivation and agendas of some individuals proclivities, sexually, is a big turn on for them. After all Kinsey wrote a report in the 1950's trying to find out answers about sexual issues in the fifties, 50 yrs ago. Before that, it was talked about in hushed tones and considered dirty, a legacy that apparently exists to this very day. You don't have to go far to find out the internet is full of pornography, why on earth would a question about it shock you? To develop healthy attitudes about our common sexual practices one needs information on what is considered abnormal and what is normal, rather than learning it from friends, Playboy and nervous parents.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Woofer, please note, this question was a year ago and there was more going on than just this question. There were other questions asked by Bird that were questionable. You might want to check out the unanswered questions.

    Normal!=== 18-22

    Curiosity killed the cat.

    As a man I don`t understand your phobia about older men and younger girls. Are you cranky that you are not gettimg the attenton?

    Change the equation to a 57 year old woman looking at photos of young good looking, built like a brick toilet life savers.

    Here on the beach they have "sand buckets" for the women to empty their eye balls into before leaving, if they didn`t we would be out of sand.

    What was it Mum said? Oh yes, sauce for the goose sauce for the gander.
    bird88

    First off No I am not cranky, I get all the attention I need sexually. Thanks for your concern. However I am studying Human Sexuality as part of my psychology degree and the subject happens to be "Men" in general. I wanted to ask these questions to get some opinions on some case studies we are doing for this class.
    PEOPLELOVER

    Gee sorry bird88, my error if I had noticed your name I never would have said "curiosity killed the cat" that must have really frightened you.

    Back to your question you are fairly new to this site, and I welcome you, however we get a lot of questions from weidos looking for "shock affect".
    We also get kids wanting their home work done for them.
    All this should assist you as to why some answer can be tongue in cheek. In your case had you said " I am a 80 year old psychology
    PEOPLELOVER

    If there are two similar comments by me directed a to bird 88 I had a glitch.

    Bird88 sorry I frightened you with my "cat" bit as a bird you had good reason to worry.

    Re your comments to me.
    We get a lot of weirdo questions plus kids doing homework.

    Had you said "I am a 19 year old student studying psychology at Ratbag University and currently we are studying male sexuality as part of the course" The responses to you question would have been much different.

    Even as a student of psychology I am sure you can now understand that.

    I stand by my comments as far as why single out men and the fact that women are as likely to like looking at young men.

    You were forth coming about your sexual fulfilment and, as a 79 year old man who has no degrees except a honours from the school of life and the school of hard knocks,it is unwise to share your accomplishments of this type with complete strangers.

    That is covered in later lessons on psychology.

    Again sorry about the "cat" bit
    Chiangmai

    Ratbag or Rutgers?
    PEOPLELOVER

    Ratbag was just a name I made up for a fictitious University Cheangmai. Cultural gap?

    Why are you asking so many sexually related questions? We have little kids on this site.

    bird88

    Excuse me, I did not ask anything vulgur, but at the present time, I am studying human sexuality as part of my psychology degree and I needed opinions on some case studies. I have also seen much worse on this site. So if it offends you than I am sorry you feel that way. Have a wonderful day.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    More like a reminder that there are kids here. I didn't know where you were going with this and you certainly didn't share that you were doing homework here. You were actually beginning to sound a little perverted yourself with all the questions. As you say, you've seen worse here, so I try to stay ahead of the ones who do turn vulgar. You have a nice day too.
    bird88

    Thank you for your opinion, I will keep all questions as clean as possible and I will not be vulgur about anything I ask for opinions on, and yeah I should have made it clear that I was a student doing case studies for Human Sexuality rather than sounding Perverse myself.
    Yvonne57

    Moderator
    Haven't heard from bird88 in a while - guess he wasn't a student after all. By the way, I saw on TV that Bird88 is a game or cartoon character.
    mycatsmom

    Yvonne, is he a guy ? I thought he was a girl. So,maybe he's not really a student?

    Did you know that men have 20 % more  blood than women? It is normal for some older men to look at pornagraphy with younger girls in it. Theire blood rushes to theire head but many times nothing happens down below. It is just wishful thinking and most likely harmless.

    That's the only way they can get a kick start...

    Tommyh

    SSHH! (Tell 'em you are a student working on studies in human sexuality).

    I like to look at young people. Makes me think of how I wasted my youth and hoping that I can share my wisdom with them so they might not wast theirs. Get God in your life wile young.

    Many a man's sexual peak is during those young ages.  What the elderly men are doing is attempting to relive those moments. As long as it remains as a day dream, there is no harm.

    Bird88 I don't think you are actually a student.  Why didn't you fill out Basic Information when you signed on this site? 

    It is my opinion that your question opens a can of worms,The study of  Human Sexuality and Disorders is  very complex and diverse, elderly gentleman drooling over young girls may appeal to some members of our population ,  for  reasons  only the thought police can answer,theories abound regarding the attitudes of society and its indiscretions,perhaps  some people  have  become a product of o their  environment ?

    First of all 16-18 is perv as the girl is not full aged making it just wrong but when the women is 18 then its alowed as most men don't have a gf or wife and got nothing to do so they watch porn and masturbate.

    Deathboy

    umbriel in uk its 18 16 is perv

    Men are men, and they will look at girls untill the day  they are taken to the funeral home in a hearse.


     Dirty old men like to have fun too.

    They had better not be looking at girls who are 17 because that is not legal an if they are then yes it is perverse

    Nostalga.....

    eloninete

    it was so funny to read your comments,

    Umbriel,


    Who the bloody hell told you the age of consent in Kansas was 13?  Are you out of your lime pickin' frickin' mind? 


    Are you smokin' Turkish hashish? Doin' Deutsche dope?  'Er what?


    Dude . . .  or Dudette . . . which the sam-hell ever ye be matey, there not be a state in this here cuntry (Aye! Just for ye spellin' fanatics (Aye. Like me.) I spelled country wrong on purpose.  Er, porpoise.)  No place anawhare here in Americae has consent laws younger than 16 now.  Ney even Kentucky, Tennessee, ner Hillbilly old Arkansas.


    Now there ye be, ye fowel weather teen aged Brits!  Don't be puttin yer potty mouth and pee-pee brain in places over here whare ye kno nuthin' a-boot!!   And no me buck-o!!  We don't got no Dan'l Boone n'mor, nor d'we have Davy Crokett, Wild Bill Hickcox, ner Buffla' Bill Cody.  And them Red Apaches be done fer, as well as the planes Souixs, the Cherokee, Choctaw Chipowa, Ojibway, Iriquois Nation, and all those wild Red Men!!  And their women be PARTY DOLLS.  I KNOW!  HAD ME A COUPLE OF'EM IN THE REAL ARMY!  Aye and I be from the right glorious state of TEXAS too ya' false little Brit shit!  And I bet ye wouldn't e'en know yer own fine lady, Mrs. Margie.  What a fine lass, and full o'class that one be!!  STOOD BY THE QUEEN FIERCE like and my own fine Ronny Boy Reagan.


    So wise up!  Ya silly Brit teen!  Stop rockin' yer own boat a'fore ye sink the bloody Ilses cause ye done went and fell fer then fell in luve with those towel head bastards yer lettin' run over yoo,  and yoo ain't even got no ex-cuse!  Yer Queen, God love her, AIN'T no silly assed Kuranist.  Neither be that joker ya got fer PM now.  But too many of ya Brits be rollin' over and playin' dead fer the hash smokin', towel headed, camel jockey, rummies.  Stand like Churchhill did and take back England from those stink bombs.  Aye!  I agree!  We here need t'do the same.


    Ta-ta fer now!!!


     


    I hope you take 99% of this as the funny I mean it to be....


    G'night Umbriel,


    Heavy DOC

    mycatsmom

    that was a good example of somebody NOT being "politically correct" He sounded like a combination of a Scotsman, and a 16th Century pirate, matey.
    It was funny, though

    Most older men still think of thier youth and looking at young firm bods bring them back inFantsies and keeps them on there toes so they try to keep up appearances and maybe capture a get time with a younger woman.I personally think most men have this in thier heads and think that the still are handsome others dont and sit back and enjoy the easy lifestyle!

    Bird88,


    Being the adult male that your speaking about, When I look at young girls within that age group that you mention, it brings back memories, good ones at that, of when I was thier age. It's ironic in the sense that when I was that age, I could either take them or leave them, I was more interested in hanging out with the guys. I'm not sure, but I don't think that girls back then, looked the way they do today. They most definitely didn't dress the way they di today. Putting it plainly, I find young girls atractive somewhaer in their twenties and no their teens. I also find middle age woman attractive as long as there well. No matter the age group, I appreciate woman who take care of themselves, have a good smile, nice teeth, are somewhat tall (5'6 to 6') with an average shape. I find myself looking more at older woman today more so than I did just 5 years ago. Based on that, I know personnally that the older I get, the younger the girls will be that I'm attracted to. here are dirty old men out there, I'm just not one of them. Good luck to you.


     


    Run2U



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